Hi I have been married for 4 years to a person who is emotionally abusive. Even though he has never laid a hand on my but he is a big bully and very territorial. To put things in perspective he threatened to abandon me for just getting my hair cut. In addition, he recently fought and forcefully took locker keys from me where my streedhan was kept. On top of it my husband and my mother inlaw open the locker in my absence and dont let me access it. Plus my inlaws bought a house recently and he forcefully took 20 laks from me threatening me again with abandonment if I dont pay the dues. Also till now I have been bearing most of the household expenditure. I am not sure on what criteria I should file for the divorce. Also my inlaws live in a different city so where should I file for a divorce. Also, how long will it take for things to resolve? Will i be eligible for alimony and maintenence and if so how much would it be? I am really upset that i am thinking in this direction!