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Gnanamathi (proprietor)     23 July 2012

Divorce needed from my husband

Iam married before 17 years and have a daughter aged 15 years. Iam business consultant and my husband does not have any work. I need to take care of my family. Now it happened before 10 days he got suspected on me and locked me in my bedroom for 8 days.On three of these days he had mixed valium10 drugs in my tea and after I had gone unconscious beated me and one day my daughter came to know this and admitted me in the hospital and Iam back home now.Then after two days he has poured sugar in my car petrol tank.He has stolen my rings from locker and has margcaged. Now he has called my clients and has spoiled my business. There is no hope in living with him hereafter. Kindly advice me as how I can divorce him and live independantly with my daughter happiy. 



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Anish Thakur 7018812737 (advocate)     23 July 2012

dear querist,

  1. if you are seriously thinked about living seperate and unable to tolerate all these things ,follow thes steps-
  2. file domestic voilence and cruelity complaint against him.
  3. also lodge fir against him under use of drugs and prhibition act
  4. lodge attempt to murder and theft
  5. i think these are sufficient grounds to make him feel hell for what he had done with you
  6. but you have to make it as procedural way and step by step.
  7. file divorce petition on grounds of voilence and cruelity
  8. feel free to call and raise your voice and raise it high,set example for your daughter so that she will never suffer things like such even in dreams.

Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     24 July 2012

There are two options available to you based on your abrupt brief before us;

1. Offer him “MCD option” and part ways with your stridhan and your daughter and start fresh in life.

OR

2. Pack your stridhan along with your daughter and "desert" him and start fresh in life.

I disagree to @ Anish advice which is not sustainable remedies for a 17 years old married self dependent wife read with a 15 years old daughter.  He is offering you 5 cases and average they will not only cost you 60 K (keeping Anish SC practice claims as stated in his profile) but minimum 6 - 8 years petition writer to advocate(s) chambers to Oath Affidavit Commissioner to CAW Cell to mediation center to police station to various civil to criminal courts sightseeing visits with on-off tagging (exposing) your daughter to these places as you cannot leave her behind alone. Offcourse you will get (some) relief’s interlocutary meantime but then you meanwhile see yourself and your about to become major daughter's social tagging long term vision till finality of his suggested full-house pack of caces, that is why I differ here socio-legaly to him and suggested you only two options out of which pick one which eventualy leads to quicker "divorce" only.
Reasoning:
Your brief are full of quite abrupt facts and in absence of detailed Chamber discussion I feel above two are "just" remedies to be offered via this Internet medium. 

MADURAI LAWYER (LEGAL CONSULTANT)     24 July 2012

Dear Mam,

I am really sorry for what has happened to you. You can move a petition either for judicial separation or divorce on ground of cruelty. 

If you have any doubt as to where to move such petitions  and what things you are supposed to do before filing such a petition, you can speak to me on 9842197857.

 

https://jeevaganadvocate.com/contact.php

Ranee....... (NA)     24 July 2012

File divorce on cruelty ground.If he did these on mere suspicsion then may be he won't be agree for mutual concent divorce.Don't dessert him as that is your HOME as you have lived there for 16 years of your life.Contact a

lawyer for further course of action.

dr.pawan rajyan (member and secretory)     24 July 2012

agreed with tajobsindia view.this is best option for you.regards


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