Divorce on medical grounds , cosealment of fact that the gir

My suggestion is just let your son talk straight with your DIL and her parents that he is not interested to live with her (if he is truly not), citing the reasons. Don't mention about divorce. Don't reveal that your son wants or needs it. They too cannot keep a daughter at their home without remarriage, so they will push for divorce too. When both parties intend on divorce, road for Mutual Consent Divorce is paved and it will be easy. 

If you show desperation or urge for divorce, they will squeeze you good for alimony.

Good luck,

Originally posted by : jatinder
	one thing she had been operated upon for her thyroid and her glands were removed. Her behaviour is diffferent . She is taking medicines without telling us . Her parents live very near to her . their interfearence is too much. her salary and status is on higher side. so many problems.she is very arrogant .

In our Indian culture len-den is part n parcel of shaadi-byah. They would have given mithai, u would have asked some more mithai, nothing wrong in it. All do. All ask. But now u selectee wrong girl for ur nalayak beta who earns less than his wife, that is the biggest problem of all. Ie selecting overqualified wife for underqualified son. She earns more+has thyroid disease, why the fcuk will she listen to you? Or anyone? Sir, mistake is completely yours. If she has filed 498a, you file counter 498a (if you have dumm in ur g@@nd) on her and her entire family . don't spare them, giving dowry is as much a punishable crime as taking or asking dowry. So now file 498a on her. Or simply go for settlement. Throw money and take mutual divorce. You should be thankful to your dil that she at least is taking medicines for her thyroid disease, there are some huchsoolemunderu who don't even take proper medicines. So better is u n all sit n decide what the fcuk u all wanna do. Don't take decision without consulting your son.

In your 1st post/query you did not confirm that complaints/cases have been filed.

In your 2nd post you have confirmed.

Both families are staying close by.

Avoid street side confrontations.

Avoid any confrontation.

 

Engage a very able counsel ASAP and prepare your defense.

If MCD can be worked out, without any backtracking, it is the best option.

In case of MCD also, try to include in agreement, if possible,  that everything shall be paid when she deposes 2nd time. 

Before it,try to save the marriage if possible.

No one knows what shall happen, in second marriage.

 

 

 

In your 1st post/query you did not confirm that complaints/cases have been filed.

In your 2nd post you have confirmed.

Both families are staying close by.

Avoid street side confrontations.

Avoid any confrontation.

 

Engage a very able counsel ASAP and prepare your defense.

If MCD can be worked out, without any backtracking, it is the best option.

In case of MCD also, try to include in agreement, if possible,  that everything shall be paid when she deposes 2nd time. 

Before it,try to save the marriage if possible.

No one knows what shall happen, in second marriage.