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rishabh (nothing)     30 January 2014

Divorce query

dear all i got married in nov 2012,and in sep 2013 my wife left home taking all jewellery ,after all this she started to reconcile bt in vain ,she kept on emailing me askin for clothes and jewellery to which i didnt respond,few meetings held but all in vain. now in jan 2014 she has filed a complaint in women cell all relating to domestic violence and dowry, and askin me to ive separate to which i disagree, after so much of cruelty from my side (which she states) and still want to live together which is practically impossible from my sides i rather stated that all allegations are false and i too want to live together but condition being that she should give in written that the complaints are false to which she disagree. question is that how to save my family - if i take her and start living separately ,would i b able save my parents and sisters and for how long i have to live with her. - i dont want to live with her and if i ask for a divorce i have to pay alimony. so shall i file for conjugal rights and later for divorce. pl guide regards rishabh


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Rama chary Rachakonda (Secunderabad/Telangana state Highcourt practice watsapp no.9989324294 )     30 January 2014

Why divorce for these simple allegations ? Contest the dv & dowry cases and condemn all in the court.

rishabh (nothing)     30 January 2014

Sir after listening to so many wrong allegations about my family as well , i knot of trust and love is completely broken and i just dont want ro stay with her neither my family wants her back, pl suggest a way out to save my family and to get rid out of this sh*t, as i have observed she too wants d divorce but mere kandhe pe gun rakh k

Gautam Kapoor (IT professional Studying Law)     01 February 2014

@Rishabh, The decision to stay with her or not with her is totally yours and cannot be forcibly enforced on you as you might/could be the sufferer. Get a GOOD lawyer and fight these cases out on merits.Let not  the fear of alimony destroy your coming life, the honourable courts are there to discuss the alimony based on the merits of the case but not by any unproven allegations.

Speak to common elders and keep the doors of amicable negotiations open and get out of all these cases as soon as you can.

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     02 February 2014

The decision to divorce should be a last resort and should not be used as a tool to handle the present crisis.  If she has filed false cases against you,if you feel that she is intentionally torturing you with such weapons, you may contest them on merits and during the mediation sessions, if she agrees to a compromise situation, better go for it, it may be either for resuming the marital voyage or breaking the ties once and for ever, but be convinced about what you want to do next.


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