1. The concept of RCR was introduced in India in the case of ref. Moonshee Buzloor Ruheem Vs. Shumsoonissa Begum (in 1867) [11 MIA 551] where such actions were regarded as “considerations for specific performance.”
2. Mere filing of RCR does not amount to pardoning or condonation of cruelty by spouse. However it does raise a natural point that if she was tortured / harassed to no end in matrimonial home by her husband why does she want to be with that same person? This presumption arise only if she files any Criminal Complaint and also files RCR and not in cases where Husband is first mover by way of a divorce suit and or judicial separation suit and she retaliates by just filing RCR.
3. It is just a remedy that is aimed at preserving the marriage and not at disrupting it as in the case of divorce or judicial separation.
HOWEVER, one can always test her real intentions (cases where wife filed earlier a criminal complaint and also RCR); i.e. accept her RCR without any conditions and ask her to return to matrimonial home after withdrawing her RCR suit matter as compromised stating clearly in her withdrawal statement following wordings; "I am without any fraud, fear, coercion and or duress reached a compromise with my husband and have condoned all alleged acts of cruelties past and present and wish to withdraw my RCR suit matter against him and rejoin my husbands company with immediate effect, hence I may be allowed to do so". Once she withdraws her RCR with above Statement ditto copied into the dismissed as withdrawn Order Sheet of ld. Court then withdraw your Divorce stating just "Parties have reached compromise and I may be allowed to withdraw my divorce suit against respondent / wife as currently I donot wish to pursue the same".