Dont want divorce

if your husband is residing with your in laws in their house then nobody can stop you to go there and to live in that Home as it is your matrimonial home , but if your in laws had disowned you and your husband from their house and ends all their relationship with you both then you can not go to their house then you go to your husbands new house where he is residing , it is your husband duty to provide accommodation , and other facilities to you , if he willfully or under conspiracy refused or ignored you then you can file domestic violence ct against him , otherwise show your intention that you don't want divorce from him you want to cohabitat with him , talk nicely and sort out your differences and misunderstanding amicably with him .

Originally posted by : JK
	I am being apart from my husband and his family since almost 5 months now. There were certain household issues when I was being sent to my parental home to bring my mom along. Since then 1 meeting happened but nothing got materialized and my inlaws asked me to go back to my parental house again as there were heated arguments which happened. Since then nothing came up from their side and once I tried going back, things became worst (they have shifted my streedhan to some other place and says that my husband is no longer living with them. We are unaware of the new accommodation of my Streedhan but m sure that my husband is still with his parents only). Now they have been saying everywhere that they (including my husband) don’t want any patch up and asking for mutual divorce. I don’t want any divorce as me and my husband never had any personal issues with each other.   I wanted to have your suggestion that can I go to my inlaws place??   Do I have any right there if incase my husband is not residing there??   What if they don’t open the door for me??   Your kind suggestion can give life to my breaking relation…. Plss help me….

 

Your questions:

 

I wanted to have your suggestion that can I go to my inlaws place?? 

Under the given circumstances, it is better that you do not visit your in-laws at their place.  When situations are heated, you should let them cool.  It is better to go in search of your husband than your in-laws.

Do I have any right there if incase my husband is not residing there?? 

Family life works on basis of trust, love and affection, if one of the party to the family, you or the inlaws or your husband does not have trust in each other, then the question of right does not arise.  Rightfully, if your husband is not residing with his parents, you cannot go and stay with his parents i.e. your in-laws, even if you thrust yourself on your in-laws, your in-laws can evacuate you from their premises through court order.  Wife can legally and rightfully stay with the husband and not with the in-laws !

What if they don’t open the door for me??

If your in-laws do not open the door, you can as well go back to your parents house or try to locate the place where your husband is living and join him there.  Going to police station and filing a complaint against your in-laws and your husband will only deteriorate the matter and your marriage will just start to crumble little by little.

Instead of doing all sorts of nonsense things, I advise you that you along with your parents approach your inlaws and talk it out the differences you have amongst yourselves.

Remember, love can make things sweeter, a hard person talk easy.  Using force via police or courts will only worsen the matter.

Good luck.

Thankyou Laxmikant Ji

They have not disowned their son. Its just that they are showing that they have separated him. My husband is showing everyone that he is not living with his family too. He donot reply to calls or messages even. I dont want to initiate any case (as this may spoil my relation more). Since he is not connected with me presently, i dont know where is he residing. 

I wanted your suggestion, can i go to my inlaws place in this case (99% are the chances that he is living with his parents only, but 1% chances are their that he is not living with them), still do i have right to go to my inlaws place??

Jk as you had stated that 99% your husband is residing in your in laws home , i suggest you if your husband is residing there you can go there and live there no one can stop you as it is your right to live with your husband , but this time situation is different you don't want any dispute or any legal action against him you want to cohabitat with him therefore you don't go alone there do one thing collect some respected relatives from both sides of your families and arrange a meeting between you alongwith your parents and your husband and his parents to sort out the differences and misunderstandings between you two families , talk nicely and respectfully with everyone and show your intention to be a part of their family member, don't discuss about your stridhan because when you want to cohabitat with him then this time no need to ask such questions which irritirate persons , once the matter sort out then you can locate your stridhan without making any issue of it .