Dear Members...
Need your guidence and help in matter relating to my Sister, the fact of the cases are as below:
- My Sister has been married for last fifteen years, the guy is in Delhi Police. They have two child, son of 13 years and daughter of 9 years. She is a teacher in Delhi Govt.
- From the very begining she has been having tough time on family front. Initially her In- laws started pressuring her for her salary and other things
- She and her husband due to problem in commuting from their village to their offices, decided to move to Delhi Police staff quarters, however soon her husband and her family start harassing her for living seperately.
- Over period of time, the harassment increased as a result 10 years back we filed a complaint in police. Her husband apologied and assuring that he will not create problems again took her back.
- She was allocated an MIG flat by DDA, however her husband by pressuring her included his name in the registry.
- She is paying the EMI for the flat from her own salary.
- For last two years, the harrasment has increased tremendously, Her husband has problem, if some colleague of her calles her (male or female). He would snatch phone from her and ask about who called her and why, would look through her messages..
- He also had objection to why she wears new cloths..
- He started to raise issues with My sister or her kids visiting us...
- when it became too much, she came to our place and told us all she is putting up with.
- We called him up, he again started apologising, saying, I didn't mean anything by saying whatever i said to you...it was just like that...you are the best wife etc.
- We finally convinced my Sister to start fresh and give him another chance.
- Now, 4 months later, we got a call from her kids that we should help them our there mom (my sister ) will be dead.
- When we reached there, Her husband was trying to push her out of her home. we called up 100, the moment Police arrived he changed tone, saying there is no issue. He again apologied and settled up somethign with Police guys. Even the written complaint which we gave to Police is seeing no action.
- Yesterday, he stopped my sister on her way and threatend to kill the kids, if she didn't return.
- He is so shrewed that he starts apologising the moment one gets tougher with him. With my sister he shows his real colours.
-He has never harmed her physically, though he does beat up the kids. He doesn't contribute any money towards kids education or home.
- Can my sister claim to the house, as she was allocated the flat and is paying for it.
- Can you please guide, how do we move further now, Police is not cooperating as he is from Delhi Police only. The kids don't want to go back with their father. Should we file a DV case, if yes, how do we prove what he said. Can we get a protection order so that he can't harm the kids and my sister.
Would appreciate your reply and guidance..
Regards,