Subject : pls advise |
Message : sir, pls advise if I can really file DV on my husband, I agree I provoked and instigated him, since I wanted to come out of marriage. |
From : bhavana |
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Marriage is about adjustment.
If you dont like this husband you can change husband, but there is no guarantee that your next marriage will be peaceful or happy, you cant ditch one mans peace of mind/happiness for sake of your happiness and be happy.
Mr Singh and Mr Ansumi have right advised you.
If you did not want marriage, with this man, it is your fault that you married him against your own wishes.
By filing cases like DV etc you will postpone getting divorced by anothr 15 years. and no guarantee that court will grant you divorce by end of those cases. It might be so that yo uwil still end up with same husband even after long unwanted court battle.
If you have some other setup, like boyfriend who you could not marry etc, all that are like oasis. They wont marry you, you are used product now. YOu will be treated like one if you marry some other guy whom you liked in the past. Life will be terrible, it will be jumping from pan to fire.
Just take mutual divorce. Act mature way and talk to husband tell that yo uwant divorce. Take mutual divorce in 6 monthst time. You will be free of this man.
If your husband gets some good advocate like me, you might even end up going to jail for filing false case on husband, not just you but along with your parents.
Dont send pm.
You ask whatever you want to ask openly and take advice.
Be advised that, once yo uare divorced it will be dawn of new problems you did not even think of.