I married two years ago. my baby is one year old. I had extra martial relationship with my mother. This continued from my teenage till my marriage. After marriage I am true and honest to my wife.
This started during my teenage which I sleep with her. Due to my hormone problems my hands and leg touched her and I got some enjoyment. It started continuing. I felt very bad. I was very much aware of what I was doing is illicit and immoral and against the normal activity and it is a crime. But unfortunately I did not stop.
But She did not stop me vigorously. She did not think to rectify me. When I do some activity with her, she just said some verbal warnings to stop me. That did not work out.
But till my marriage, I was thinking that I am misbehaving with her, once I got married I will be honest with my wife and have relationship only with her. There was nothing wrong with my mother. So she will also get freedom from my torture. I decided not to tell this to my wife.
Since my engagement, she had tried many times to stop my marriage. She arranged to send some anonymous letters to my wife's house and to my uncle's house stating false allegations about me and my wife respectively
Beyond that, My marriage happened. After that She was not able to tolerate when I and my wife spend night together. My indecent descripttions she did with my wife. She tried all options to send my wife out of home. She had taken all efforts to separate myself and my wife. She wanted to continue the relationship with me. She did not want me to be with my wife.
I am living outside India. I sent her to India and make her to live with her relatives. Now I am living with my wife in abroad. She made false complaints about my wife and degraded my wife character wise among my wife's relatives and neighbors. I am the only son (no daughter also) to my parents. Father is no more alive. I am sending 10,000 rupees every month to mother as expenses.
Now, she is every day calling my wife's uncle and aunty's (mother's sister) and complaining that " I want to live with my son, your daughter (my wife) is not allowing my son to bring me there. She has brainwashed my son, She is not good character wise. My son is not sending money for my survival. I am begging money from others and living etc etc.."
I and my wife are so much depressed because of her. I did not expect her thought will be like this. I want to live my life with my wife and my son. I don't want to live with my mother.
Please help and suggest me how to stop her voice and how to threaten and avoid her from entering into my life