Sir,
can a girl sue a guy for breaking a relationship ?
let me explain the case. a girl, 22 year old, and i started chatting on facebook in september 2011. we first met in nov 2011 and ended up getting intimate in the second meeting itself. the girl said she loved me very much. we had 3-4 more such intimacies.
regarding marriage, i never promised her, i said i am not sure about it. and i always maintained this throughout. once there were talks about marriage - but it was all in if's and but's.
there were talks of us living together in a flat delhi (without marriage), which she had initiated. i had said maybe we can. but again i had not promised, but the girl was persistent on this matter (told me repeatedly not to stay in the hostel and stay with her instead). but this discussion took place after we had already had s*x first time. in january 2012, the girl later threatened of being pregnant, i checked it with the preganews 15-16 days later, it was negative..she checked it second time on 14 feb, it was negative.. and we got it checked third time at a path lab, it came out negative as well.
summarizing it all ,
i had never committed marriage, but we had s*x with her full consent (her desperation rather) and the love that she had for me. i too had felt the love a little.
we had talked about living together in a flat, but that was after we had had s*x already.. and in the end we never stayed in a flat together, though we had s*x before as well as after the discussions.
now i told her that my feelings have faded away and i cannot continue this thing.
what charges can she put ? and whether facebook chats can be used as an evidence in court ? i am not sure but in facebook chats or skype chats i might have said "maybe we will see for marriage later ", but there was never any promise or committment.
and if the girl goes for the FIR, how can i save myself from being arrested and insulted ?
i have phone call audio messages where the girl accepts that "there was no committment (of marriage) ever". how and when should i use it to protect myself from the false accusations. it has actually become blackmailing.
