I need advice on the following family problem.
My brother got married to a girl more qualified but of lesser economical status than our family. She was working in a BPO that time and well informed about that my brother was not in a steady job and earning less than her. Since they god married their were always issue in the marriage mainly due to irresponsible behavior of my brother. Although my mother didn't want a working dil but she allowed her to work as ad hoc teacher which she felt is right job when u have a little daughter of 2 yr old and my mother have additional responsibility of my blind father who is in a govt job. We supported the girl to appear in competitive exams of ssb so that she have a safe future.girl use to go her parents house to prepare for exams. Now all the time she behaved as ideal bahu and last she went to her parents house in July'13 for preparation but she got a job n started working she gave reason that her office near to her place she needs to stay at her parents house and insisted my brother to move there and a ego clash started. Now in may we get a letter to appear in CAW cell. We already have an irresponsible brother to tackle and this letter is causing a mental torture to my old parents who already crying for their grand daughter. One important thing to mention the girl married my brother in arya samaj mandir in her mothers presence then later we had to agree for a Hindu ritual marriage for society sake. The father of girl first gave us a call asking property share and then filled a complaint in May'14.
Please advice