Fed up with my wife and marriage

First of all try to convence her that u care for her and then take her to to kulli and manali take photo shoot and video. After that you both shift to separate home on rent and sale your all asset, you leave the job and ask her to work. She will come to know only when she will work and ask her to maintain you. she will get frusted and will leave you one day.

Section 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act lays down several grounds based on which you could file a petition for divorce. In some cases, such conduct, as which you explained, could be termed 'cruelty'. NOT in your case, however, since you also slapped her, which amounts to physical abuse (and which she may disclose to the court in her defence,) and so your attempt to apply for divorce on terms of cruelty could fail for the court shall deem that you may be trying to 'take advantage of your own wrong.' (Section 23, Hindu Marriage Act.)

Court can also grant the decree of divorce under section 13C, that is, on grounds of irretrievable breakdown, however, for that to be possible, the parties must be living separately for a period of at least 3 years, and the court has to be convinced there's no hope for reconciliation. (Courts do not grant the decree based on 'normal wear and tear of marriage life'; when they deem both the parties are merely exaggerating their issues; Dastane v Dastane)

The shortest way to go about it would be if you both mutually consent to divorce. However, as it's constantly observed in a lot of cases, the courts place huge amount of consideration in the preservation of the concept and sanctity of marriage. The courts also expect the contesting parties to behave as rational and respectful citizens. I would advise you two to get marriage counseling and try to sort out the issues amongst yourselves first.

You won't face any criminal charges, be assured. The court would of course realize that you may have been provoked/aggravated to a situation which resulted in you having that outburst.

Then that would be a false charge, for which you can apply for anticipatory bail u/s 438 CrPC. That is again a very prominent ground reflecting cruelty based on which courts grant divorce in some cases.

I'd however seriously advice you to get in touch with an advocate and make him aware of all the intricacies of your situation so he can walk you through the process and you and your family stay unharmed. Good luck!