Hello All
I got married to a girl of age 25 in april 2011in an arrange marriage. Girl was apparently forced to get married by her family and her relatives without the prior knowledge of me or my family marriage. It was projected as a decent arrange marriage . We had no dowry demands etc.
The girl is not willing to consummate the marriage, after repeated efforts and persuasion . Finally close to year later when the parents of the girl and boys parents tried to resolve the issue , she disclosed that the marriage was forced upon her. The girls parents still were denying of any force marriage. Now after lot of discussions and persuasion from girls family , She insisted that the she will mend her ways and lead a conjugal life . That didn't happen even after another 8 months . Girl puts blame on her parents and parents on her. There was no fights/quarrels between us in the whole period. I liked to settle the matter amicably , was not willing to drag this to court of law.
Finally she left my place with no reason to return back.She left citing reason that she doesn't love me and cannot thus continue this marriage. I filed a RCR case which for past 9 months , no one is attending it. After repeated notices. Not sure if I get a decree of RCR she will lead a conjugal life
Please advice how to proceed. I feel like cheated and mentally harassed as to what has happened. I would have never got married to a girl who is not interested to get married in first place. My life is screwed up here. I am not sure who is at fault but yes i felt cheated , lost of peace of mind and 2.5 years in all this.
Isn't forced marriage a punishable offence in India ?
regards
kumar