Hi,
Myself Asghar Ali from Bangalore (India). I got married 2 years back and I have 10 months old daughter. My wife is staying at my house in my home town vellore along with my family. My family consist of My mother and brother and his family. Before marriage i confirmed that I'll keep my wife in bangalore along with me. After couple of months my wife got confirmation that shes expecting, due to that reason I couldn't bring her to bangalore. After delivery my kid was infant and due to cold climate I couldn't bring them here and clearly told these reasons to my inlaws. Recently my father in law passed away now monther in law is leading her own family.
I found a individual house to purchase. I was running short of jewels and thought of pledging my wife jewels. I informed my wife that I'll pledge her few jewels and I'll get that back within a year. She was find with that. The next day was our second year marriage anniversary. I've been to my in-laws house to meet them. Her uncle came along with 2 strange guys to discuss about jewels. They asked me under whos name I'm going to purchase this house and I told them that I'll purchase the house in brother's name who is legal guardian for me and whos the one who taken care of me after my father's death. They were not convinced with that and they told I should purchase the house with my wife's name because I'm using my wife's jewel to purchase this house. I was not happy with that and I told I'm not going to touch the jewel after this. I'll apply for loan and I'll purchase my own house (By Grace of God, my brother is earning much and he doesn't require house from my earning). It'll take 3 months to purchase the house my wife should be at my home along with my mom and family. They were not ready for that and they said my wife should be at my in-laws house until I purchase the house. I was told that my relations are telling that I have a illegal relationship with brothers wife and how can keep my wife in that house. I told when you guys are not trusting me I dont want to keep any relationship with you guys; however, they thought I said I dont want to keep relationship with my wife. Now they have given pettition for Khula (Devorce) in Jamat (Mosque) by stating I'm planning to buy house in brother's name by selling my wife's jewel and I said I dont want to keep any relationship with my wife. After that I tried negotiate with her uncle that I dont want jewel. I need my wife and my kid I'll take them to bangalore and I'll keep them in rented house but her uncle is not ready for that and he's not allowing me to talk with my wife and to see my daughter. Her uncle kept my wife and daughter in some unknown place. I've been to my inlaws house but the house locked. Her uncle not ready to tell where are they. My wife switched off her mobile. My wife doesn't support me and she always listen to her mom and uncle. In between I came to know that they are going to charge the false dowry case against me and my family, hence, I consult the lawyer and he said I should send the notice. I issued the lawyer notice to her and the copies were sent to women's police station, SP office and govt Secretariat by stating come back and live with me. I've clearly mentioned that they threat me that they have a good reputation in police and they'll charge the dowry case against me. Also I clearly mentioned come back and live with me. Recently I got reply to my legal notice by stating the I sold all my wife's jewel and I never gave food, shelter, medical and other basic requirements to my wife and daughter. I harrased my wife and I forced my inlaws to give me jewel and more money very frequently. My father in law expired because of this mental tourcher. Now my inlaws are claiming that my wife is angry with my legal notice and she doesn't want to live with me any more. I'm in a confused stage and I dont know how to bring back my wife and also doesn't know will she be with me forever instead going back to her mom house again. Can anyone help me how to deal this. Thanks in advance!
