How can i save my wife and marriage ?

Dear Querist

legally you have two option one is police and second is court.

 

if you are ready to take legal action then there is no other optiuon you have except the above.

 

file a complaint before DM/SDM for search warrant and recover your wife from them.

 

or file a writ petition before High Court against them and get protection and recover your wife, but if your wife is not ready to support you then nobody can do anything for you.

I understad the situation  in which you both are living.  Rishad no one can any one stop you getting married or living together since you both are adult. But question is how to resolve without seeking legal recourse or lodging police complaint is important as suggested by your wife for not lodging complaint.  However, I suggest:

1]  Ask your nearest relatives to approach their parents/ relatives to convince that you are now adult and have freedom to think of your future.

2]   There are Human Rights Forums which resolve such problems through mediation. Find out at your region or her region.  They will send intimation to her  parent for meeting for mediation.  

3]   If she can come out, she can also approach to Womens'  Grievance Redressal Forum in her visinicyt.

4]  If above is not possible, some lice & court mediation is essential.

Hope I could convince you

Adv.Jeevan Patil, Mumbai

In addition tothe above 2 experts, I would like to put in my views as follows:

1.U have married as per the shariat law and the marriage has been registered. UR inlaws cannot reject the marriage certificate.

2. How could U believe them so blindly and send UR wife to their house.

3. As a precautionery measure approach the police station the place where they are staying and inform them either written or orally, that they have not allowed to meet UR wife,also enclose a copy of the marriage certificate.Nothing wrong in it.

4. Be sure that they have not brain washed UR wife during this time, to break the marriage.It is a possibility.

5.As a last resort involve third party mediation for amicable settlement.Let us hope this will succeed.

 

Now when both of U are muslims and well employed, why were UR inlaws admant to agree for the marriage.

sir 

my name is shaik sadhik i am married on 26/12/2014 and my wife name is aaisha

she is call to her brotherilla on my first nite i see it and tell to my mother and my mother tell to her mom who call to aaisha why he says ree we won't want to call him she's mom says ok i will tell her after one day we go her home for zummagi that time i am goto hyd for stenographer exam and i return to home that evening and i am call to her number was busy and i will countinuly call her for 1/2 our number was busy after number was resived by my wife i am says why your mobile was busy she tell me i will cal you and you also call me then mobile was busy and iam go to home and check her mobile she once again call him i ask why you call him she says why he don't come marraige i am ask for.

she  goes so many time her home when she go to her home she dont come with me and she diffnetly stay her mother home 1or2 months i will adjust and took her back ondy i found in my notes she wrote she had already a boy friend and she had s*xvally connection also

she also found my lover name and my name in my notes  she behaviou in my home when she wants to go her home she cuttted her hand with blead and i want go to my home right now othervies i will die and broke her bangles i dont stay here so many times she go her home she behav like this and ok i will adjust and when i go to her home to took her back she says i don't come with you.what ever i adjust when she wants to back i was go back i took her back.she tarcher me s*xvally also.if i want s*x with her then she says i don't if u want i will cray loudly and after onday once again i am ask she behave like that after 10 day she accept me on one month she accept me only three times only

now i had a five months baby

she go her mother home for three days sleep i am also go with her after three days i am ask her come with me she says no i do not come with you ok now i am taking it serious 

can muslim man marriage another women without giving divors to first wife or give me a suggistion what i am do now

 

To make a long story short, you have to file habeas corpus writ petition in the High Court for bringing her into court from the illegal custody of her parents and send her along with you.  In the court, at the questioning of the judges, if she says that she would like to go along with you, no one can stop her to be with you.

Sadhik, U have to post UR query in a new thread for assistance

Thank you very much for all your reply. Still I do not know how to deal with it. I want her in my life. Can I anyway bring this matter infront of any third party other than Police and court ?. Human Right forum is a good option i guess. But are they (her family) legally bound to produce her infront of the forum ?. Is anybody ready to help me in this regard. My contact number is 09544800513. Thank You very much for all. I really appreciate this forum you are doing a wonderful job here. Thank you

A third party can only discuss with your wife's parents. Her parents are not obliged to listen or change their stand.

The better way is to approach the court as Adv. Chandrasekhar advised before being too late. Police can be influenced by her family, but not the court. How long do you think she would withhold their pressure?

You want her in your life, act now. Good Luck.

 

as u r his husband n u have all the proofs then u can go to the police n let them know that her family is not letting u meet ur wife. d nxt option is court.