Dear Seikhar,
As per your PM and query,I would like to add that a marriage is can't be called as valid marriage until or unless it is not consumed.Simple getting married and not enjoying the physical intimacy is a voidable marriage under the eye of law.But subsequently there must be a reason where such unconjugality has been performed. This is most prominent question through which your defence lawyer will put during the time cross examination.
A marriage is not consumated is not a single statement whereas it carries numerous clauses inside it ,like as following:
1. Due to impotency of either of spouse?
2. Due to incompatability issue which has been revealed during first night itself?
3. Due to any mental phenomena or any disgrace?
4. Due to some internal health issues prevailing for such acts?
5. Due to some future concerns or needs?
6. Due to simply harassing either of spouse for any unwilling demand?
So,here ,as per your querry point -2,3,6 are grounds which has made to non consummation of marriage.
I want to know from your end as what ground you have taken in the procedure for non consummation of marriage?
Simple alleging that non-consummation has not occured will not give you any relief until or unless you have stringent evidences supports and witnesses which can proove your allegations.
If mediaclly aprooved that you both are fit for consummation and even she is not a virgin......then again a matter of arguements and uphelding with trial will go on and on....
So,first of all you have to make a solid ground by which the consummation has not been occured.
What has made you to live apart since first night onwards,what strange or any fraud you have notice since the s*xuall consummation started and went for non consummation.
I again remind you that in eye of Law if a lawful facts and circumstances been approoved that due to this cause the pettitioner is unable to consumate the marriage,then there itself the marriage will be annuled.
Just go through the citation given by Tajob and ask you lawyer to proceed with such cases of sec-12(i) (c) HMA 1955
The day when it will be prooved that this matterial fact's were supressed prior to the marriage,by which the consent of you and your guardian has been taken by fraud or by force then your marriage is voidable which can be 100% get annuled.
Best of luck and for more query you can PM.
regards.
A sufferer..