How to avoid divorce & save marriage

Rahul it is not new in newly married life. First list down yr mutually agreeable and appreciated points, Take help of  family councellors on disagreements on how to sort out. Take aback in yr assertions as a strategy and allow her way to later to tweak into via media approach.  Best way is to choose right time to putforth yr point in getting it accepted. U start accepting her and pursuade her to accept you.  We all have to live with availables and happily compromising than to pushing all along what we want though we are right.  Good to be patient and forgiving. Good luck.

It is better to read Thomas Hardy's book "I am OK. You are OK" rather than seeking legal options if you are earnest about saving marriage.  Invoking any legal right would only ruin the marriage.

If I am I. Your place and if both the party agree, I will choose to go to psychiatrist rather than forum of lawyers.

Seek relatives, friends, well-wishers advice and cousellig will prove excellant result.

There are always difference in opinion which does not mean a divorce, the ultimate (at the begining).

Reconcile with situation and your wife, lead a happy married life.

Best of luck

Dr J C Vashista #9891152939

Thanks for your response. But as I mentioned the problem is she has decided not to continue & her parents are supporting the same. At same time they also want we mutually agree for divorce & close. While I m not convinced with this decision as I believe the same that counselling by someone from family/external whom she could be influenced will definately workout. The issues are very silly where we both have differences of opinion in simple day to day aspects of life. While I have learnt & keep proposing to her since last 6 months to ignore the conversation or stop the conversation if it takes wrong path but probably that does not happens. Moreover she is too angry women same is case to some extent with me. THis creates the hell in day to day life & frustrution. WHile she has been threntening since last month onwards that she will take poison, which has been kept worrying. Hence I belive there parents also wants to discontinue so as to avoid any worst situation. I am also bother at same time to avoid any such situation. I being God believer & love humanity can never ever expect any sort of negative decisions hence I am not able to make up my mind for divorce. Counselling may help but probably is not working out in this case as attempted for several times in past. Are there any external counsellers who being neutral on both ends try to assist. Who are they in profession. How to trust if any such

@ RAHUL

ONE THING YOU WILL DO IF UR WIFE EVER CAME BACK TO YOU IS- SURRENDER YOURSELF TO YOUR WIFE, WHENEVER YOU R WITH YOUR WIFE. PUT HALF A GLASS OF WATER INTO YOUR MOUTH FROM MORNING TO TILL NIGHT  AND DON'T EVEN FEEL TO VOMIT IT OUT. TRY TO TAKE GANGA'S WATER. IT WILL DEFINITELY WORKS.

I have married lately. What I felt that when a person comes from the different society in our family. It takes some time to adjust the relationship so give more time. Keep away from argument.

Hi, I tried to convinience my wife we seek assistance with some marriage counsellor in our case. She has refused & wanted we apply for mutual divorce.

Can you pls help with the consequences in either case - If I agree for mutually agreed divorce or i refuse to her decision to agree on divorce.

In case if I agree to mutually agreed divorce, what are the consequences in terms of alimony, maintenance I will have to provide. In case of mutually agreed divorce will we both need to appoint our seperate advocates. After filing together for divorce, can she further file any other case against me

Pls help with better wayout.

Hi

 

Can anyone pls help with answers to be questions posted in above thread. Thanks

Rahul

      First try to find what's the issue from your wife side. If she has reasonable issues against you which you can change, then change it for her. If there is no valid reason, then she may be having someother problem.

If it is mutual , file with one advocate. Mututal agreement itself metion, all dowry and other articles were returned and also mention no case will be launched from both side in future