I got married in 2007. Not taken a single penny as stridhan. A girl child was born in 2008. In 2009, due to petty differences in perspectives and opinions, false 498A and DV were rolled out against me and my parents. I subsequently filed for divorce. I’m a NRI earning an average monthly income of ninety thousand rupees (admitted at the court). Wife is not working although she has her masters. An interim order was passed by the court to ensure that a monthly maintenance amount of Rs 15000 is paid to her from my end which I totally comply with. All hearings and cross examinations are over. Currently awaiting final maintenance order. I’m the only son in my family and my future is uncertain. I’m losing hope and peace of mind. I talked to her and she said she will agree for divorce provided I give her 75 lakhs and 25 lakhs be deposited on my daughter’s name. Considering the above, do you think it is fair that this girl is asking for such hefty amount for an out of court settlement? How many more years do you think these cases will drag if I decide to follow the court? Is what she is asking for justifiable and fare? I can borrow money and give it to her and work all my life to repay what I borrow if need be. However, I’m not sure what is the right thing to do.
Advice from the members of this forum would be appreciated? Many thanks.
