Hi,
I am pomme, living abroad with my child. My husband is living in India. In want of more money, he sent me for abroad job, indicating that unless otherwise we cannot meet the family expenses or loan.
He has emptied all my bank acconts and my parents too.
From the beginning, we had no proper family relationships too.
He had been beating, accusing and ill-treating me.
Since it was a love come arranged marriage (inter-caste and inter-religion), I tried to bear all these.
And now recently, I refused to live with him, referring to the economical burdens, his religious pressures, the ill-treatments by him and in-laws and a kind of mental torture.
And now, he mails and texts me that he is going to commit suicide, if I dont agree to live with him!
A week back he messaged me that he has taken four naphthalene balls. When I called him, he didnt pick up. Then I requested his cousin to check with this. After that my husband called and told me that he has vomitted and three full naphthalene balls have come out. The next morning he was asking me for prescripttion of medicines to avoid stomach problems. (I am not a doctor). I was thinking, may be that he is manipulating and trying to draw my attention and make me to withdraw from my decision.
After that once in three days, he sends me a message or mail that he is going to commit suicide and asking me to talk with him happily.
Being in abroad, I dont know how to handle this situation. Now I dont have my family members in support too.
I am afraid that he may stage a suicide scene to bring me down there and to get convinced with him.
I am tired of these pains and want to end up this relationship.
Can someone suggest what I could do?
Thank you!
