I agree with the feelings of Roma & Snehal,The facts that if a person who is absconding by leaving his pregnant wife must be asked for his clarification as why he did so?
If he would not wanted to sustain the marriage then simply he might have gone for the divorce or judicial seperation at early innings of marriage,here the consummation led him to face the music......
But other hand it's a revenge where such wives are looking rather than rejoining with him again. .They even know better that once any cases lodged on husband and on his parents then definately it is going to be an end of marriage.As the husband who had gone away will never think to rejoin his wife or accept her.Such wives know very well that whatever i will do or try he will not come to be my husband. So,better suck the money and leave them afterwards by draging them in number of cases...
It's correct for those who are wife beaters,who are drunkyard, who left his wife and son without reason,who used her wife like one night stand and flew away.
But what about those who are an innocent from very begining,whose wife had left away,whose wife been a business minded lady to extract only money from her husbands...
So,as we see the cases are parallel to both sides, as negative and positive vibes are equivallent........If men are Bastards then Women are Bitches.
My only concern here is , If a man can think for remarriages if he is not satisfied with his wife then why can't a women do the same thing?
why she Just wasting her youth, her money, her peace, her patience , her whole life where in the age of 30 to 40 is the main period of life where an individual enjoys his life at fullest with his true companion as no tension of study,no tension of earning,no tension of child to marry her, No tension of education to child for higher studies,no tension of health etc etc.
Then why somebody put herself/himself in just bl**dy revenge game from where he/she will get nothing more than a wrinkle face,deprived s*x, Financial hiccups and the doors to diabetes,high blood pressure, heart disease,kidney problem,anesthesia etc etc.... after 10 years when somebody will legally free from all these entangles.
So in my opinion--------- just leave those who don't know the value of humankind, try to thank yourself as you are free from that man who doesn't know the value of his upcoming child,who don't know the value of wife as he left you. Then why to keep eye on his waiting,as when he will come and when he will look after me.
if you want money ask him,ask for his all responsibilities,even court will help you but don't drag yourself as well as him in bl**dy revenge game because these games have no ending......
It's time to rethink........
regards,
A sufferer...