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S.B _Kolkata (Service)     18 March 2010

How to protect my parents from 498a harrasment???

Dear All Advisor,

 

My wife is staying at her parent's house wioth my 7 month daughter since from the day of discharge from the hospital. After our several request she did not agreed to come back and join our family. She mainly wanted to stay with me separately from my family. I had opposed the same from the first day. Still I am sending money to her every month according to my capability. She need more money and now started to fabricate false story about her mentral and physical torture by sending sms.The actual fact is that  is was with my family just for 05 days as togather. 01  year   spent with me in my working place. We got married in 31st May, 08.

 

 

Under this circumstances How can I prevent my old poor parents first from the false dowry cases??

Please advise me accordingly...



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 10 Replies


(Guest)

1. Keep in a safe place evidences of money/ letters / sms / regd. post mails sent to her.
2. Both of you need merital counseling to resolve over issues of "residence" May be a midway rented place between both side's in-laws could solve the immidiate issues post birth she is raising. Setting up quality time to visit yoru parents without disturbing your marital life may be added solution.
3. The briefs does not smell of S. 498a IPC as of now but it may be a gift anytime other than other quality Sections of Maint. / residence rights Laws of the land.
4. There is nothing called "prevention" when she wants to file she will eventually file the said sections from the various Acts of law in fvour of women, but yes lesser damage to your side could be possibility if you start interacting with legal minds in your vicinity and following para 1.

Rgds.,

S.B _Kolkata (Service)     19 March 2010

Thanks you all to advise me. But at the same time when she insisted me to isolate myself from my old poor parent, how is it possible to keep her word being an elder son of my family??

Parents have never thought back to give us the smallest pleasure in the world , though that was not very easy for them but just to see that smile on our face they would to anything . They took our hand in the childhood because we were learning to walk, they taught us how to overcome the obstacles and go forward, but what do we do now when they have not remained so strong to walk on their legs...Do we give them our hand? Or give them a stick and say walk your way????

 

We should not forget that getting old is a process of life. It’s a circle which will come to us also, today our parents are old tomorrow we are going to be old. What we do to our parents may come back to us from our own children.

Secondly, her behavior as I observed was very dominating as well as suspecious, while staying at my working place for a year. She has broken the trust by saying assorted false statement even today also.

 

So how is it possible for me to make change her and bring her into the main stream of life???

S.B _Kolkata (Service)     20 March 2010

As on date when I and my family are getting fear about false dowry case, It is impossible for me to reconcile the hole matter and stay with her separately. I decided to divorce her and at the same time wants to give a good fight against her false case. What will be the appropriate way for the same???

S.B _Kolkata (Service)     21 March 2010

pl advise.

S.B _Kolkata (Service)     21 March 2010

Sir,

You mean to say compromise with them....?

S.B _Kolkata (Service)     21 March 2010

That means to avoid the litigation I'll have to compromise with them. Also I have to act a drama forever in my life. Is it possible ??/


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