Hi Every one,
I am girl, 25 year old, now married to a man with good family.
Brief about me:
- I was born in a small family and i was raised by parents. During my teen my parents were more supportive. Later i completed B.Com and started my careed in a reputed privae company. When i was 25 my parents started looking groom for me and found a very good guy.
Brief about my husband & his family:
My In-laws are really really good and they never demanded any money or dowry because they also raised up slowly with lot of struggle and my husband had put lot of efforts by himself by working in other contries to rise their economical situation. They are living peacefull life at their village and they are having very good reputation in the area also.
Current Issue:
We both families are fom different area and our formalities are different in nature. When the marriage talk was initiated my parents were started giving false commitment that we are going to do very big ceremony of engagement and other things like Divali & pongal give & takes. When my marriage was done, nobody came along with me to my husband house, i was all alone, it was a very big shame for me. And my husband family also never expected this. Post that I got conceived and my parents never talked with me through phone also for a longer time. When my husband planned for my baby shower function he invited my parents as well. The baby shower ceremony went well but at the end my mom was asking me to come with her to their home but i was not interested becuase for the last 9 months my husband took care of him in every moments. And for my family we don't have any home to stay and no income for my father also. Before the baby shower function itself my husband said to my mom is that " your financialy situation is bad so taking care of my is going to be burden for you, so i'll take care of my child birth at my home itself". Bug my mom felt the i am disagreeing to come with her and she felf ashamed and started shouting in my in-law home and went out and called the neighbouor house people and showed herself that she is good person and my husband family is done something to my daughter and they are not sending her with them.
This moment was very worst and it was not acceptable my in-laws, they felt sick mentally. Becasue of me they are shamed in the village and every body is asking my in-laws that "why are you not sending your daugher-in-law with their parents?" What they will answer, rather answering they becoming speachless becuase i took the decision to not to go with my parents. And my parents are ready to separate me form my husband. Such a curel mind people. I never though they will behave like this.
After 2 weeks my mom came again to my house and shouted again which is really not acceptable. Along with that my mom was asking me the jwell that she gave to me during marriage and asking me the certificate to separte from them.
Situation:
I am yet to deliver my baby in a day or 2 but my mom is behaving very worst so I decided to get the legal separtion from my parents.
Ask to you:
Can some one please help me getting it. what is the procedure? to whom i need to approach? as so things.
I wish nobody should not get parents like me!!!
