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onelife2liv (bdm)     27 August 2012

How to stop this forced coerced/under pressure marriage.

Hello Im a roman catholic boy 1984 born and my girl is a hindu kayasth (kulshrestha) 1987 born, we both are carrying on since 2 and a half year she is basically from agra and im from mumbai, thr has been an immsense pressure from her mother and father that under no circumstances would they allow her to marry me.

Yest conversation with her parents was to be away from her and her parents had got some proposal and hence they wanted her to snap some pics of hers so tht they can send it to the guys place but she did not agree to take pics tht's when the whole problem started whr her mom called me up. i know for sure she does not wants get married to anyone else.

This is not the first time, earlier her mom had called me up and had warned me to stay away from her or else she will kill her daughter, despite of all this we are still carried on and just yest ie on 26th aug 2012 i get a call from her mom to fire me again for she had warned me not to be in touch with her, her parents are forcing her for marriage and and coercing her tht if she does not get married according to their wish then my girl will see someones dead face (means of her parents). her father has stopped eating food for she is not ready to get married according to thier wish. I tried speaking to her parents but both of them are apprehensive about our relation. i also tried to ask wht is the problem they have about us, they are not ready to disclose anything to me. they just dont want to speak to me. Far as i know they have societal fear. My girl is ready to come with me but yest when i asked her on call "ap mere sath aana chate ho" she cried and said "nai aana chati" i know for sure tht just coz her parents were there in front of her she denied, but she does wants to come. 

I had given her this idea tht these kinda situ myt arise in future and hence she was ready to come with me, but just due to parental pressure she is not able to take a step.

i need a suggestion from you all. what can be done? how do i stop her parents from getting her married off to someone else and how do i contact her since her cell is confiscated and they have also nto allowed her to go to office.



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Ranee....... (NA)     27 August 2012

If she does not come at own will then you should not force her.You may be in trouble legally..Keep silence for few days and watch what she /they do.If she is still inclined to to then she will try to contact you , wait for that moment..If she does not agree parents can not get her marry anywhere else.

onelife2liv (bdm)     27 August 2012

Her mom said to her that if u wana go with him then u can leave the house right now itself and remember tht we are dead for u then my girl said to her mom tht suppose if you wana get me married off to someone else then ul will see my dead face. this is the way the conversation happens....

ANAMIKA VICHARE (LAWYER)     27 November 2012

She might have been threatened by her parents of committing suicide...

you have legal remedy,,,to file Writ of Habeaus corpus and get the things clear....

contact high court lawyer

God bless you and wish you get your love back

Anamika Vichare, Family Court Lawyer, Bandra, Thane, High Court, Sessions, MM Court

anamika_vichare@rediffmail.com


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