i request u experts plz clarify me....

In a matrimonial case when a Magistrate takes the parties in chamber meeting to know the mind set of both t the parties then how can Magistrate gives his order in who favour? 1.if wife says she don't want to continue but she is not able to give any reason or not able to explain or why she don't want to contiue wheareas husband say he want to give chance to the marriage once.