I want divorce from my wife

Dear shree and satish, 

I will try it's again and resolve my life. and i also want to forget everything and reset my life well if she is comeback at my home. my family is dependep on my decision so i will give one chance to reset my life and i will do better for her and my child i will try to understand her problem and resolve this matter.

any one can suggest how i face to my father in law who is very included and troubling for me? so what can i do for him?

It is not just you case Bhavesh, many divorce cases have similar misunderstanding, ego and undueinfluences of their families......

Wife is completely yours, and you need not hesitate just because her father is in between, no father wants his doughter's life to turn in to hassles..... so once you make a move with good intentions it will attract all the iron particles like a magnet and you will be left with your good stuffs to enjoy........

Have courage and try to adjust and compromise atleast for an year, once you see the face of a baby everything automatically changes...........

Dear all friends,

I tried all very well to develope our relation but she is not ready to do this. Now she is telling me that she is want to live with me separate in rent home.and rightnow she is pregnet so i told no for this and i understand everything that she is now not live with me and my family she always being angry and i talked her today but she is angry and said me for divorc and gave to her mother and her mother told me that you do whichever my wife is saying me. isquare my mom my father id very poor herat and my sister is also want to resolve this situation but her mother told that leave your family and take one rent home for you and mittal. I know she is doing cheat me all her family members are included. 

Please please please i want to divorce from my wife i know all women have heart for her husband but i can't see all this from her and she is avoiding me and she saying me that i will marry other even i have child what i m doing. she is impossible women to understand and  to make familar.

please suggest me for legal condition of court and what is the procedurace for first divorce and which is evidence should be require for supporting me.

Regards

Bhavesh Rathod

She is pregnant & need ur utmost love & care. Tilt her so much with ur love that she trusts u rather than her mother. Love can move mountains u know. Thinking about divorce aat this stage will ruin the life og unborn child too. So be calm & adjust to circumstances. Better take help of MARRIAGE COUNCELLAR, u both.

Moreover U wont get CONTESTED DIVORCE on the grounds/evidence u have this date.

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Hello Bhavesh,

If you may remember, during the first conversation itself I had  mentioned, if she wants stay separate, you need to stay apart from you family but your wife....  compared to other divorece cases, your case has no good substance in it, it loks very triffling and it is all about adjustments and compromises, for which you seem to be not at all ready ....... secondly understanding, unless you give your time to someone personally, this can not be acieved......... 
why cant you live separately, my simple question is, is your wife important for you, the person who trusted you while getting married and your promises during marriage??  When you are ready to separate your self from your wife but not compromise and live separately with your wife away from family. She is just asking for you to live in separate house, but not asking you to cut off all the relationships you have....... When she is explcictely given you the simeple option of staying apart from your family, don't you really think that is much better in all the ways than getting divorced??????

Mr. Rajiv has wel said, you need to love and take care of her, try to stand firm on the promises you have made rather think negatively for everything what she says or asks for, because in both cases it's the same, interpreting things or matter negative anf according to your comforts...... any one of you must compromise, and in the present situtation her phycal condition doesn't suuport her in doing the same, so you have no option.

Well, if you are firm on taking the divorce, think very well on not just the consequences but the time, money, lifestyles, society, and mainly your child..... you will not be getting the divorce in just an year, consumes a lot of time and your case, there is no guarantee for that you may be getting divorce at the end. think also of maintenance to your wife, and child, economically, those really costs you lot more than you may guess than just living seprately in a different home arat from your family.........

You may consult any good advocate near to your reach and you may go ahead, if you still think Divorce is a easy step and a solution, I also tell you divorce is not a solution in all the cases but inviting more problems and unwanted burdens .... kind of cases getting dicvore are far far diferent and there that is the last resort, but not in your case........

If you go to an advocate, they will take care of necessary procedures......

Have a nice day............ All the best.......

I agree, with Sri's advises for bhavesh. Bhavesh bhai go with a egoless approach , and work out a solution where you and your wife have a win win solution.