If i accept the blame of impotence will i still have to pay?

If you state your are impotent, she may still file cruelty stating you did not disclose the facts earlier and have cheated her.

Maintenance & Divorce are separate issues...Whether you are impotent or not.. you have to maintain your wife if she is not working and unable to take care of herself financially... 

If she has deserted you, she may not be entitled for maintenance... for which you need to contest your case and prove desertion during the final stages.. In the interim, you may still be liable for maintenance and courts may pass appropriate orders on the same.

You have been a clean man with no s*xual past and you need to say that s*xual malfunction was discovered post marriage and if it has been medically proven that you are not then you dont need to bring it up

 

 

Regards

Chetan Joshi

1. It is her allegation that you are impotent,

 

2. Based on the said allegation she has prayed for some relief like annulment of marriage or decree of divorce etc.,,

 

3. What is the prayer?

 

4. It is not a crime to be impotent & it is not dependant on you,

 

5. You won't have to pay anything for being impotent. 

if she files annulment casse on the ground of your impotency and not divorce case on the ground of your cruelty, and if you admit impotency which came to your knnowleedge only after your marriage, you need not pay maintenance.

but accepting impotence may harm your future prospects in getting married, once you are done away with this marriage. remember that. you will have to sweat it out, to search for a prospective bride because anyone who wishes to marry for the second time, has to give the reasons, and probably show the divorce/annulment papers to the prospective bride. so think before you act, and why worry about maintainence? it wont be given, because impotence is a natural occurance, and it is not done intentionally

@ querist,

Two circumstances arises:

1. Now ,If impotency prooved as prior to the marriage(then she can appeal for null & void marriage)

In the above case,No mainetnanace is entertained generally but yes there are few judgements where alimony/maintenanace was provided to the pettitioner.

But in your case she is demanding compensation rather than alimony. So,you have to be more cautious and rigorous for dissolving her allegations.

The benefit of null & void marriage always goes in bride side. This is bcz she can claim further as her chastity is stil alive and no consummation has happened in previous marriage. But only drawbacks for girl side is matter of alimony which rarely goes in her favour.

So,instead of alimony she demanded compensation as material fact of impotance was supressesd prior to the marriage,which has caused mental trauma to the pettitioner. Ask your lawyer to fight your case on merit if you are not impotent.

2. If you are impotent,then don't feel shy and distress

This is a medical phenomena which can be cured if you go for medical helps.Now,the point of fact is how to deal with that------you better speak to your wife and agree for one settlement that I can make you free to marry some other guy let us go for MCD and not for anullment as this will lead you a hope in future if you wanted to marry some other girl after your treatment and once you are fit for performing s*x.(bcz once got annuled the reason will non other than an impotent husband)

Your real pain will be only for the time of coughing your bank balance to your wife but after that you would be happy for having a chance to make yourself as not an inpotent man rather than a strong and joyful husband who can marry other wishful lady.

Thanks & regards,

A sufferer........