Tajobs ji,
In your photo ................................... you look much younger than your wisdom!!! Probably to separate out your tensions in life and and probably don't let affect your health..... keep it up this way only..
Rangarajan ji,
I would suggest you NOT to appoint the lawyer of your 'NOT yet to be exactly called ex-wife' or marriage under coma!! or by any way indirectly circumventing the breach of "attorney-client confidentiality agreement and code of conduct".
In HC you have to defend in favour of the impugned decree on the point of law and facts.
But yet, unless the exact details are known......................... it is not correct to say whether you can do it on your own or not!!
First of all husbands get get such decrees after a lot sweat and by conceding many other things ...... Average case cycle-time of "husband-plaintiffs" in divorce case is drastically huge than the opposite scenario.
It's a re-visit of the entire case (relying on the findings of the trial Court ......... here ........... "relying" means giving due deference to the findings of trial court but its not a restriction on HC. ) by a wiser and more learned team of Judges to re-examine the observations & conclusions made by trial Court (Very rarely "observations and conclusions are deemed wrong otherwise it is called a landmark case!!!" ... but if those are based on erroneous facts and point of law then .... observations still aren't wrong!! they are still correct!! ............ but since they may be based on the base of erroneous facts they are challengeable and assailable !!!). And it does not involve or entertain any new issues (not necessarily!!!...............HC has all powers to even allow new evidence in the ends of justice) outside of the documentation from the trial Court. Is this right?
I would not want to discourage you .................... from your pro-se endeavor .................but since you have already gone through the experience of a court trial ................................................ and hence your yourself is the best JUDGE to take a call !!!
Do let me know if I haven't confused you enough!
Cheers
JOL