Hi,
I recently got married, just 3 weeks now. We met on Shaadi.com.
After getting married from second day I started getting strange feeling about my wife. She was not allowing me to
touch her and talking very rude. I thought she is new to my home so behaving strangely.
But then we went for honeymoon , there also nothing changed, whole period was very stress full.
I started getting bad feeling about her behavior ( seems like something else is going on in her mind)
To monitor her activity on Internet I installed one software on her PC. From the log I got to know she is having a affair with some guy from other city.
From their chat It looks like they even had s*x before marriage and planing to continue relationship in future.
so I got pissed off and talked to her directly. she accepted and promised she will not talk to him again. but she is still in contact with him.
he created a fake profile and they are doing all things to hide it from me.
Now i tried to talk to here again but this time I lost my temper and started shouting on her ( didnt did any physical abuse ).
She is saying now she wants to go back to her home for some time to forgot him. should I allow her to go back to home ?
May be she can lie to them and make some fake story.
Her father is lawyer so I am afraid they might put some wrong case on me
(We didn't asked for any thing during marriage, also even her wedding jewelry came from her family are still at her home. I wanted court marriage but they forced us to have normal marriage ).
Should I talk to someone in family ?
I have the proof of her conversation as screen shots.
I really loved her and wanted to forgive her but here attitude and lies are pushing me away.