anand (HR) 31 March 2010

Keylogger keystrokes,mobile recording and emails as evidence

I got married one year back. Due to my wife’s unreasonable behaviour and continous tourture I monitored her using some morden technology and I found her character and intension for this marriage. Now I have decided to apply divorce using cruelty and adultery grounds. If my wife challenges the same, can I submit the below as evidence? Kindly suggest. Please don’t suggest for mutual divorce. There is no hope for that. I tried it many times. Please note that until now she never knew the below:

My wife is homemaker. She is using my office laptop in the evening time. I have installed keylogger software. I have recorded her chat with 3 of her friends. The entire conversation is s*xual oriented and anyone can understand very clearly that her intension to commit adultery.
Through the above software I found her email password and checked her old emails. I found her s*x affair. She had s*xual relationship with one guy for more than a year. Finally the guy left her. All has happened before marriage.
Also in her recent emails to her friends she stated very clearly that she married a NRI only for high standard of living and used very bad words about me.
Whatever she asks I have to buy for her. If I say something she used to threaten to commit suicide. Recently I recorded our conversation using my mobile. It’s a proof for her threatening for committing suicide

I have printed all the above emails, I have complete record of keylogger software keystrokes (whatever she typed all recorded) and shopshots (this software will capture image of the monitor every 5 mins). Can I legally use the above as a evidence to get the divorce. Kindly suggest the better way. Eventhough I spend for her jewelles and all the household things, now she is threatening us for false dowry case and DV case. Please advice

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anand (HR) 31 March 2010

Hi Mr. Prabhakar,

Thanks a lot for your detailed answer. Actually I was having the same opinion when posting question. I have only one option left with. That is to prove her cruelty by submitting mobile recording evidence. One time during our conversation, she accepted the fact that two times she attempted suicide and still have scars in her hand. But I don’t have any evidence for the same. She is impulsive and short tempered nature. Even after marriage one time she has tried to jump from 16^th floor just for not taking her to cinema. I tried to take her to doctor and counseling. But that increased her parents and her anger only. Even her mothers attitude is same. Now after knowing all the fact I just want to leave her and get divorce. I don’t want to spoil my life at the age of 28. If I disclose all the fact to her and ask for divorce, I worry she may commit or attempt suicide again.

Her love affair went until marriage stage and stopped due to some problem. Is it not considered fraud? Because no one in her family informed about this before marriage. Even now her father and mother threatening to file dowry and domestic violence case. I don’t know why her father and mother supporting her eventhough they know her daughter’s behavior? Will the above evidence useful in case they file dowry case? I am very much confused. Please advice what should I do to get divorce and save her life too.

anand (HR) 31 March 2010

Thanks sir, yes she insulted me many times in front of my relatives and friends. She said I am an impotent when my family members when to her house to solve the issue. She try to attempt suicide in front of my family members when we went to India last time. In fact she has commented very bad about me in front of her own parents. This is about the comparison of my s*xual organ size with some fruit. (Sorry I cant write more about this) Even for that her mother said, I am the one made her to talk like that by increasing her anger. Anyway I can state all the above reason to file divorce case under cruelty. But I don’t know how long I need to wait to get divorce. If it drags for years….

Now my only question is that if they file dowry case and DV case against me and my family members what should I do? Shall I use any of the above evidence to come out from the allegations? Actually we are ready to pay money for them. The problem is they want to take revenge. They telling that I am the one married her daughter and spoiled her life. In this life I have to live with her or die. I really don’t know how to come out of this marriage. Actually I am ready to suffer for anything but I don’t want my parents and relatives to suffer for any criminal case. Kindly advice

Mahadeva Rao G (student) 31 March 2010

hi Anand,

It is very unfortunate u r in such a deep mess. the Whole santity in the institution of Marriage is diminished to such a low level that girls think husband is only a luxury provider to girls, the only thing the girls is to do is enter a wed lock and play with the guys life the way they want. We the unfortunate lot of guys dont even have the protection of laws. It is well proved beyond doubt that the D.V. Act is only to harass the husband and if u take the statistics of the cases filed only 1% of the cases is genuine and reaches the Conviction stage. Still the Legislature is not interested in framing proper rules for the protection of Harassed men.

Even the parents are acting like pimps of their daughters. gone are the moral values to dogs.

If the guy is committing any affairs, that will be a ground for divorce for a lady, but the same is not a ground if the act is commited by the wife.

Since u r technologically advanced guy, just have cameraas installed in your houses at all crucial poiints and u fix a Guy ( under cover ) and have u r so called wife trapped on tape for more than two to three instances and this should become strong ground to take a divorce.

Dont do anything illegal and do not take Law into u r own hand. cleverly get away from this mess, and lead a good life independently. Law takes its own course may be one year or even two year, by then see that all u r asset is clearly transferred to u r trustworty family may be father or mother and declare bankrupt u r self, so that she will run away from U.

Any more suggestion u can contact me on sohan1912@rediffmail.com

anand (HR) 01 April 2010

Thanks a lot for all your suggestion and advice. Still our family negotiating with them for mutual divorce. Anyway we will try our best or file case under cruelty.

Once again thanks a lot for your help. If you have any other good suggestions kindly do your best.

I believe god is watching all. I hope I will get justice soon!

(Guest)

engage a good lawyer first , expert in DV and dowry cases,. my advise is not to wait till she files a case against you. file a case petition first . in which u mention all these. evidence will be taken care of at late stage.after taht even if she files false case of dv n dowry tat will be more or less nullified.