@Valentine ji,
I disagree with Your comments that:
1 .Family Court is interested only in adjournments .... (there are a very few FC rest all have to go to civil courts only.)
2. The parties can talk more freely to their advocates than to the judges ....(not necessarily.)
3. Because of such delay it's the the Apex Court who has recommended to include irretrievable breakdown of marriage as one of the grounds....
It sounds entirely erroneous if you allow me to regeister my view here......
Rather SC says that ...............only SC has right to use IrBM.
If parties go upto SC and level allegation against each other to such a shameless extent and wash the linen in public and fight for 'winning the divorce' instead of getting it 'slapped', .....
then only...... SC has drawn the conclusions that neither party wants to 'save' the marriage but merely wants to have a vindicative certificate of winning the divorce against the othe party!!, ...
and at that time SC has expressed views that....it doesn't make any difference anylonger as to 'which party was at fault' and it can be contrued as 'marriage is irretrievably broken' by virtue of the lengthy matrimonial battle and the character and nature of allegations leveled by both parties against each other and the existance of not only a claim by petitioner but also a counter-claim by respondent !!!!,
And hence, 'who wins the divorce' has lost the significance in the case, at the end...............................
But Divorce becomes applicable to both parties...