lawyers pls help me thru this challenge.

The fate of your cases will depend upon the evidence and circumstances of the case.  The written communication between both of you shall help you to show that all her allegations are her afterthought stories. If she is capable of maintaining herself you'll not have to give her any maintainance. If you are earning a smail salary compared to what she had stated, then file the proof of the same in the maintainance case.

1. Sh Prabhakar ji's advise sums up all issues between you. The stated guidance needs to be followed logically and both of you will live happy either together and/or in opposite directions.
2. Be human first before being a professional (as gather from your job discripttion)
All the best.

dear prabhakar sir,

u r absolutely correct. she wanted to pressurise me for separate living. i know that we loved each other so much, till she put allegations like dowry, and mar pit etc. i still loved her. she filed and 498 A and my parents and me went thru the police station first time, we had to blacken our hands for finger prints, we went thru hell. i still loved her. but i was really confused when i filed RCR. after that she started allegating threats to death by me and my x marital afairs and then i left the hope and made my mind to take revenge. i love her no more. her brother is an advocate who has done all these. i cant sleep at nights when i think of alll these allegations which are made by a person with whom i have spent so many days and nights and whom i have loved so much.

Hi Pragnesh,

I am also apprehending false 498A, DV etc shortly and since last one year I am doing lots of research on this nonsense topic. Here are my suggestions to you-

-After her filing affidavit for reunion with you, you are in a good position to win 498A if you fight (but this case can go in for 3 - 7 years). After winning 498A you will get ex-parte divorce as 498A is considered mental cruelty and it is a ground of divorce.

-As in some of the listings above, it is said that she is innocent and did not know about legal matters. How can anyone remain innocent and uninformed of legal matters in the course of one year of legal proceedings? As you have mentioned that these things are going since last one year. How can she remain completely uninformed of these matters for full one year? Personally I won't suggest you to continue your life with her, now just moved ahead and fight her 498A case, 90% of these false cases are won by boy side.

-As you have mentioned that she sent you the notice to return 8,00,000 Rs dowry they gave. Go ahead and file FIR against them for giving dowry against whole of their family, as giving dowry is also a crime. Take help of your lawyer in that.

-As you and your family members are already out on bail so they cannot do any more harm too you and your family members. They have already exhausted their all options and that is why they want reunion with you as they don't have any other weapon left with them.

My suggestions to you are - start living your life normally, continue with your job, fight your 498A with cool and calm mind, discuss with your lawyer about filing counter cases against her. They will come under pressure with that and can approach to you for withdrawing their cases - and you can negotiate that for mutual consent divorce along with withdrawal of all the cases, as before bail it is boy side who is in pressure and post bail it is the girl side who is in pressure.

Best of luck.

Mr, Pragnesh, Life is not all about ego, mistakes and litigation. Unless one is determined to live alone the entire life one must also know to excuse other. Most of the matrimonial cases are the result of un-though over advices. If you follow the advice of learned brother Prabhakar, you stll have a chance for following the idea of Mr. Kulveer Singh but not viceversa. i.e. if you first follow the advice of Mr. Kulveer Singh ji, you will not have a chance to follow the appreciable advice of Mr. Prabhakar Ji. Under the circumstances give a chance to your wife and in all probabilities it may turn out to be the best act of your life.

Thanks Sirs

dear pragnesh,

have you ever tried the therapy you are practicing on others on your own life?

"COMPROMISING" doesnot mean,that you are wrong and the other person is right,It only means that,you value your "RELATIONSHIP" much more than your 'EGO".

Pragnesh,

I am also a victim of these biased laws since three months

Though I respect all the experts very much ... but keep following things in mind before taking her back. The girl who....

1) Did not think of your career, mental disturbance, health, money and above all the person who loved her during this one year can not be brought back as in another moment of provocation and anger she may do the same again.

2) You are lucky that you don't have any kids involved ... I have observed once Kids come out of wed lock women start to feel superior and start to think that now they have licence to do whatever they wish....If would bring her back and you would have a kid .. then would be very difficult for you to handle the situation mentally as most law allows women to keep the child to certain age.

3) If you would allow a women to come back after filing all these cases against you and making you and your parents along with criminals and after all you would take her back .. then it would set a very wrong example for her and the society .. that women can do whatever they want .. then can harm any one ... and after doing all these she would be either given what she wishes to or would be taken back without any harm

I am facing exteme mental difficulties as in my case my 3 year old daughter is involved....don't be in my situation...I m sure you would be if you allow her to come back (As there would be her hidden desire to separate you from you family which would jump back time n again).

think by mind and not by heart....all the very best.

Dear Sirs ,

Mr.Prabhakar Sir is right he has adviced you in a Fatherly Manner.. think for a while Hasty desicions will put lives in a Nasty Position..... If am Wrong or Hurting Please Pardon......