Legal advice to save my marriage

He is a dentist his hospital was closed since from 1 month n he z in escape since frm 23days n his mobile is not workng and its with his sister...i hav recorded his n his sister calls...im waiting becoz i cant stay at his house without him it may lead the case in other way...he z my relative n.his family members are supporting me as for now..thanks for your suggestion i will surely follow it im jst ewitng for his return if he really for into relationship with other eomen his own brother in law n cousin will kill him...as they fix this match n will accept that becoz they are our close relatives and he know that very well...he wont do that...but watever u said was right i will follow that for sure thank u so.much....

Originally posted by : Sam
	He is a dentist his hospital was closed since from 1 month n he z in escape since frm 23days n his mobile is not workng and its with his sister...i hav recorded his n his sister calls...im waiting becoz i cant stay at his house without him it may lead the case in other way...he z my relative n.his family members are supporting me as for now..thanks for your suggestion i will surely follow it im jst ewitng for his return if he really for into relationship with other eomen his own brother in law n cousin will kill him...as they fix this match n will accept that becoz they are our close relatives and he know that very well...he wont do that...but watever u said was right i will follow that for sure thank u so.much....

 

If situation is frightening, to such extent he may not come back.

Try to ease the atmosphere to congenial for discussion and amicable settlement that can save the marriage, as you wanted and posted.

For discussion both parties to the dispute, need to talk and to to talk both need to sit across the table.

 

 

 

 

Hi Sam, Good that your in laws and his relatives are supporting now. Even for me the same condition few weeks back. slowly all the support withers. when it comes to son or daughter-in-law after few years with no kid involved, people change. I dont want to discourage you from talks. but when condition is such that a guy abandons his wife in 23 days and runs away without contact there is something fishy. If its a misunderstanding or he is just angry with u then he wont abandon u for so many days without any contact with u. You can have talks only when the person is present or atleast you are in contact with him through mobile. I would suggest you to write to NCW asking them to call your husband for patchup and counselling. This is needed because if your husband has gone abroad or something then police may not be of much help. Also ask them to refer you and your husband to private marriage counsellor, if needed. Is he in contact with any of his relatives or all his relatives unaware of his whereabouts? If his relatives and his parents too are unaware of his whereabouts then I dont understand as to why they are not trying to find their son yet. parallely you can approach police along with one of your relatives(as your relatives are his relatives too, police will definetly help you) whom you trust, to file a missing complaint. Police can help to trace him and bring him to police station and counsel you and him together. They cannot compel a above 18 years old major to go along with wife or any of his family members. But you can come to know his address through his written statement to police. Then you can go and stay with him. Since you know his parents' address,I dont think he will come back to his parents' house  that too after sending legal notice. What address he has specified in the legal notice? 

 

".im waiting becoz i cant stay at his house without him it may lead the case in other way". I understand that. that is why asked you to move to where ever he resides now. Waiting for him is a good idea if he is atleast in touch with u. it doesnt happen like in movies that suddenly he will realise that he loves u and misses u and will rush back to you. He has pre-planned all this and has with complete understanding of his plan executed a legal notice etc., He wants to keep you away till one year is complete and i dont think he is intending to come back. stay strong and try to introspect what went wrong. From what you have described I dont think you are responsible for his cranky behaviour but still find out what he wants and post loving and cute posts, selfies on facebook and cute snaps on whatsapp etc., be very very polite to his parents  but dont trust them blindly. dont openly show that you are longing for him or like that. Most men dont value a woman who longs for him. Have some pride and attitude but secretly do all the above steps to win him back. Many men these days dont like straight forward women. Dont express yourself more than necessary. These are all not legal advice but i advice you as a sister. onee day there will be normalcy in our lives just that few of us have to struggle a lot to bring back that normalcy.

He dnt have parents they are expired....he stay alone even i thought that some thing may be happened but i wil wait for 1 more week....as of i know he loves me but he in some kind of stress which made to do that...whatever happens im ready to face...

My husbands dad was expired when he is above 8yrs n his mom died 6yrs bcks..i said im ready to face any problem if he directly do something but now he left home and we dont know whether he is safe or not..im not with him when he left home im just scared if i complaint in ps and he is good enough and returned he will say that he lost his reputation.... and im scared in otherway that if he was kidnapped or something lije that his life may get into risk...im thinking in criminal way..i love husband and i cant imagine my life without him..i just want him to be safe thats it and i posted my problem here to know what and how to reply so that he can come out...and his brothers are angry on him becoz there daughters are above to get married if this situation got spreaded in relatives no one will marry their children and my dad and me are very beloved to everyone of my relatives no one will keep queit..even now im thinkng about my husbands reputation in society nothing morethan that....he got 3 elder brothers and 2 elder sisters who are very busy with their life and they are not worried about their brother what can i do my dad was not supporting me to give complaint in ps...im just completely helpless and i want to give reply to his notice in such a way that he should come back i just want to see him atleast for once just to know that his safe....

He has torchered me but still im not angry i just want him to be safe and happy...becuz i love him and he is my life...i cant tell u anything morethan that

He has torchered me but still im not angry i just want him to be safe and happy...becuz i love him and he is my life...i cant tell u anything morethan that

Apparently minor altercations are leading to big bloated issues.

Approach  elders of your family(ies) and talk out and resolve all issues to lead happy married life.

As per their instructions im waiting for me their is no other option for me....my elders are insistng mr wait for his presence....

Hello you file police complaint for missing your husband.

What should i do to make this notice invalid or to cancel other then reply...as per my knowledge my uncle told my dad to reply to concern advocate as it was posted frm his address on the we recieved the notice...everyone are trying to manipulate me and my situationis in such a way that i cant explain the things happening around me everyday...you are right he got a daughter 18 yrs or below with his 1st wife and stayng with his 1st wife itself he told that he dont have any relations with them as everyone of his family members also told the same...im scared with my situation and not able to decide about exact point bcz of everyones manipulations...

It has been suggested in the beginning to lodge police complaint.

You have your elders: Father, Uncle.

You may discuss in person with a very able counsel of unshakable repute and integrity at your location specializing in family matters.

It's quite complicated situation sam, I think you should file a complaint against your husband in the police. He must be punished for his activities if he is doing some illegal activities.

Other talks to your elders regarding this.

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