(1) If a court passes an order in your favour, you should first procure a certified copy of the same and send it to your opposite party with a covering letter by Regd. Post Ack. Due notifying the same and ask it to implement the Order.
(2) You may have wait for their acknowledgment card. Keep it safely stapled with your copy of the covering letter for future reference.
(3) Then, you have to keep an eye on the opposite party if it is preferring an appeal within a stipulated time limit (say 30/60/90 days as the case may be) and till such you cannot compel the opposite party to obey the Court's Order and act upon it.
(4) Only after the statutory time-limit for Appeal is over, then only you can send a Contempt Notice finally warning the opposite party and if it is still not implemented, then you proceed to file Contempt Petition.
(5) The Contempt Notice should be strongly drafted in such a way that it shall ventilate your grievances even after obtaining Court's Order in your favour but not followed it by the opposite party.
(6) You shall not forget to include words such as "wilful disobedience", "contumacious", etc., and you shall also properly the financial / mental agony you are suffering on account of the wilful default/disobedience committed by the opposite party.
(7) Only when your Contempt notice is strong, the Petition following it will be merely mechanical and may not serve the useful purpose or attribute any wrongful act or negligent act of the opposite party.