Hello! I am from Mumbai, age 33, a buisness post graduate working at middle level, only son of parents, My Dad is retired goverment officer and Mom is housewife. My wife is graduate, age 30, working in local
company at middle level. Got married in 2009. arranged marraige, no children.
Till now there has been lot of painful suffering taken by me and my parents from the hands of my wife ( major attributes like short tempered, rude, harsh, big tongue, self obsesssed, disrespect) and her rich & politically powerful family like physical, mental, verbal abuse, mafia & legal threat. Even since past two months my flat has been hijacked by wife and not allowing entry to us, if I try then there has been verbal, mental and attempt of physical abuse along with life threat.
There has been three NC's raised to the local police by me against wife and her family members
NC-1 = Verbal & physical abuse, legal threat of wife's family by coming at our place.
NC-2 = Wife threathening of suicide
NC-3 = Locking my flat and not giving key and threat of life to me and my parents
Currently i am staying with my parents in pune since past two months(father-mother owned flat) while my wife & her few family members are staying in my newly bought flat. The biggest mistake I had done was I had
taken my wife's salary into consideration while taking loan due to which she became co-owner while i am the owner.
Please note for the new 2BHK flat, I had sold my existing (single owned) 1BHK flat, taken a huge loan, taken some financial help from my retired father but my wife has not given a single rupee. I am paying huge EMI on
my own till date. Even though she was working, i never took her money from day-1 and somehow managed household expenses, PRE-EMI (before getting new flat possession for one year), Flat rent (for one year) and EMI after moving to new flat.
From Sources I understand that she will not give divorce and will not leave flat, keeping me and my parents only option is to suffer humiliation.
There has been no communication between us in this two months and more than six months or so there has been nothing even if we were staying together under one roof.
My advocate suggested to wait & watch, let them come to us for breaking things, it might be against us if we file a divorce case & may not get divorce as well as property
Could you please try to extend your expertise on below points:
1. Need divorce
2. Need my flat back to me as a sole owner & remove her co-ownership from the flat.
3. Wife & her family member to leave my flat immediately via Legal way.
4. Prevent entry to wife and her family members via Legal way in my flat till may be divorce decision to avoid abuse, threat, harassment, false legal aligation etc.
Humble request to all law expert brothers & sisters to please help me by providing your valuable suggestion/advice which in turn will give me more strenght to fight this legal torture. No matter what happens I will never quit & continue to fight.
In case of any query/clarification, please let me know.
Thanks!
