LCI Learning

Share on Facebook

Share on Twitter

Share on LinkedIn

Share on Email

Share More

New**comer (New)     03 August 2013

Live-in with married man

I am into a unhappy marriage for last 17years. We have a 10-yr old daughter.My wife has earlier filed divorce twice also, but I have resisted her from divorcing for my daughter's future. But life is being intolerant with her as she is not at all into the marriage till date. Now I have found someone & already into a relation (physical also) with her. My wife knows about her & me & my wife had filed for mutual divorce in March this year.The date is pending on this November.Now suddenly she is determined not to divorce me.What should I do to get the divorce?How could I marry the girl I'm into a relation with?Can we get married outside India even if my wife doesn't divorce me? What cases can my wife file against us I go for a live-in relationship with my girlfriend? Please do help.



Learning

 14 Replies

498A__misused (Sec)     03 August 2013

Most important point to consider is ...if your GF is married or single ...If she is single then you can go for live in and if she is married then her husband can file Criminal case on you.

REMEMBER - Dont go for marriage , just go for live-in either in india or abroad.

Later even if you have child from your girl friend then no need to worry . it does not proof  your second marriage.

 

Enjoy you life .. you wife can alsways file false civil or criminal cases on you like DV, 498A but if you have not tourchered her for dowry and have not commited any kind of domenstic voilence then you need not to worry , she will fail to proof such cases on you

Never ignore your daughter as she has no fault , love your kid and always support your kid in everyway.

 

New**comer (New)     03 August 2013

Thanks for the help. My GF is unmarried.My wife is forcing me to stay in the marriage by threatening me about filing a false 498 case against me. I have no family members alive. Please let em know if  she refuses to divorce me in court, can I get it somehow on Exparte Basis? What should I do to go for an exparte divorce?  Can she file any adultery case againt me? I'm not ignoring my daughter as I'll be depositing a lumpsome amount for her future in FD.

New**comer (New)     03 August 2013

Mr. NGOKC, thanks for the help. But how can she file a bigamy case againt me till I don't get married to my GF legally?

New**comer (New)     03 August 2013

How to protect myself from false case of 498? If I go abroad with my GF before the pending date of divorce & do not return back for the hearings, how could it affect me? If she files the cases mentioned by you against me, would it still be effective on me as I shall be staying abroad?


(Guest)

By thinking all this you are inviting trouble.


For threat of 498a, secure anticipatory bail.

New**comer (New)     03 August 2013

Ok that I'll do. But how to stay with my GF without any problem for lifetime? Please let me know would her 498 case be effective on me if I start staying at another country?

New**comer (New)     03 August 2013

No, I'm not talking about 498 hearing. I was talking about the divorce hearing.

What if I skip the divorce hearing?

Can she file a 498 against me after I leave for abroad & would it be effective on me then?

If i convert & get married to the girl I love, I guess case of bigamy won't be applicable on me the. Please suggest.

Please suggest me a way in which I can stay with my GF for lifetime safely. PLEASE HELP.

New**comer (New)     03 August 2013

Why won't a 498 affect me i  am in India? What do I need to do for that?

New**comer (New)     03 August 2013

If I stay abroad how will a 498 affect me there?Can i come back to India after 7-10years then?

I need to stay with my GF anyhow. Please suggest how to.

Nadeem Qureshi (Advocate/ nadeemqureshi1@gmail.com)     03 August 2013

repeated query, check your another post

New**comer (New)     03 August 2013

In that case can this cases affect my GF on her return to India?

New**comer (New)     03 August 2013

PLEASE HELP..

dr g balakrishnan (advocate/counsel supreme court)     03 August 2013

your plight is understood. your real wige can go gor many cases but she needs to prove , problem here is your live in. yea you can have sensible living as she is unmarried but ensure that she does not beget children till your divorce with your real wige is a reality is a better wisdom in this circumstance as she cannot say that you live in live in as in the past Europen persons at Bangalore used to have maid servants locals and had all relations with that lady and at the end they even gave them some indian properties that way Anglo indians came into being. Then Maid servant per dictionary was understood that servant will aslso be a s*x partner to the person, tthat is the beginning og living in story that started during british days and that is constinued now as 'Living in Relations' regularised by Courts og law. In Gujarat time immemorial concubines are also treated as 'Living in' relations only when you read sociological legal history.

So the principle evolved there was biological necessity is the mother og invention gor s*xual relations and gor that you need to share properties to that woman who lived with you as she bore children and she only brings up the children and that way was born the property giving by man.  So today Living in relations today became a reality and law settled it as divorcing woman or a woman abstains grom s*x is a pain in the head og husband that way biological need became predominant that way you have RCR  in laws.regds.   


Leave a reply

Your are not logged in . Please login to post replies

Click here to Login / Register