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Devashish (student)     06 May 2012

Love marriage

Hello,


Myself Dev,i just want a suggestion from all.I want to marry a girl and the problem is that her family is ready.And they dont want their girl go for love marriage and want to go for their own choice and want to proceed for arrange marriage.Her family dont want any love marriage.

And i m 23 and shes 19,i m doing BA and also workinin call center and shes studing and we both want to marry.But her mom and dad beat her everyday and shout on her but we really love each other.So i have decided to marry her and want to go for court marriage.And i dont want that her parent came to know about our this decision and after court marriage,we want to live alone and i know i can make her happy anyhow with all her wishes and financial,I can effort that by doing job. And i m living in Jodhpur(rajasthan) and i have heared that while court marriage under some law.Court have decided to send a  notice at the girl's and boy's residentAnd if happens so,its a problem for us and they will never accept this and provoke her and force her to marry with someone with their own choice.And honestly,she will die,if it happens so,becauese she loves me lot and her parents harassment her from her birth and they never make her feel good......


So please tell me solotion and a way,how can we live together...and after marriage even her parent cant deny and they cant do anything.So please help me sir/mam...

I know to be fall in love and to love someone is not a crime but these old traditionl people,never think of this...

Even they have to think,whatever her son or daughter is doing,she/he is doing with her own choice and she/he has to spend her life with someone...how they so selfish...

 

Please help me...

Regards

Dev



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 2 Replies

Vishwa (translator)     06 May 2012

This is hardly a question for lawyers. If your GF has passed school and has some qualifications, she must get a job and stand on her own legs. Then only she should think of marriage. Nowadays it is quite possible for girls to move away and live independently from their parents, perhaps in working women's hostels or similar.

Any way, you can go to Arya Samaj and get married there and get the marriage registrered at a later stage.

There is no such thing as court marriage, as courts have better things to do - like hearing false dowry harassment cases... Court marriage simply means that the marriage is registered by the court registrar when the couple fills in the form. This is by no means obligatory.


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