Mahila takrar nivaran kendra

1. During rcr process (after counselling), shall i give another chance to her & patch up?

2. suppose if we again come together, what precaution shall i take?

3. can i put my terms & conditions in writing to come together and let her & her family accept those? (then only i will think about patch up)

4. during rcr arguments, can i ask for compensation of expenses i hv unnecessarily incurred because of her filing the complaints & cases?  (like lawyers expenses, travelling etc?)

5. can i now convert the rcr into divorce case?

1. During rcr process (after counselling), shall i give another chance to her & patch up?

If you wish, you can go for cohabitation.  But the expression of "giving chance" shows your ego.  If you are intended to stay together, go for conciliation.  By saying to "give a chance", you are not showing any mercy on any one.

2. suppose if we again come together, what precaution shall i take?

If you both trust each other, go for cohabitation or otherwise not.

3. can i put my terms & conditions in writing to come together and let her & her family accept those? (then only i will think about patch up)

Again, this question is  showing your highhandedness.  If both spouses think equal and start to trust each other and try to make other partner happy, then those marriages become successful.  You can put your terms & conditions in writing, but in courts every day we come acrosss the flouting of the written agreements - in commercial, personal and land deals.  Written conditions have no sanctity and in matrimonial matters, written agreements cannot be enforceable and they are subservant to the statutory provisions.

4. during rcr arguments, can i ask for compensation of expenses i hv unnecessarily incurred because of her filing the complaints & cases? (like lawyers expenses, travelling etc?)

No.  If you are financially vagrant, then u/s. 24 you can ask for litigation expenses and maintenance.

5. can i now convert the rcr into divorce case?

You can withdraw RCR case and file divorce case afresh.

To your first query, if you will not attend the MTNK, her complaint can be lodged as FIR under relevant sections, i.e., S.498-A and/or Section 3/4 D.P. Act and S. 406, depending upon the nature of complaint.

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Hi,

I am raising this question again.

can i put my terms & conditions in writing to come together and let her & her family accept those? (then only i will think about patch up)

It is because, I tried to convice her (and my mother in law) thorugh the relatives for MCD. She is demanding a very hefty amount, which is not possible for me. And she is not ready to agree for anything else. Instead, her (and my MIL's)  demands are increasing with each passing day.

Now, co-habitation seems to be only way for me. That is why I want to put conditions about our future life. Is it possible / legal? or is there any other suggestion.

Please guide me with this...

Experts... Pls guide.

your 'terms and conditions' apply style will backfire on you

@fighting back:

How? What can happen with that?

@fighting back:

Thanks for reply.

Please explain in more detail what can be the consenqunces of it?

pls give suggestions.

please do reply