I GOT MARRIED IN 2009 HAVE 1.5 YR OLD SON, STAYING IN PARENTALHOUSE FOR PAST 6 MONTHS as husband is not ready to keep me , talk to me or even reply to my messages . he filed divorce in jamat mumbaion grounds stating tat iusedto go out in nights and challenging paternity and rcr in mysore takimgsomesilly format stands and stating i askedhim to buy house where as it was other way round . after waitingfor 2 months i filed transfer in supreme court and maintenance in family court . mumbai . as i had come across one of his email stating his infidelity. according to me there was no reason y my husband did all this with me , as it was a love marriage . but he did it . now in all reply he taking different stands and stating that i am harassing him by filing n number of cases . i just filed maintenance as i cannot burden my parents more . he gave expired salary certificate in court n i gave fresh one . my husband does not come to court n sends his uncle everywhere . i have sent defermation notice to him as he hadpointed my charactter and spead rumoursof me having 3 extra maritial affair . i have said either prove wat u have spread about me or compensate n give 5 crore , because i have people coming and asking me who is the father . now he claims i am want to extort money from him . what is my likely stand in maintenance and defermation . i want maintenance only upto the tme he takes me back as i m concerned with my patch up n not money . but he shows no sign n threatens me by passing messages that he will do another marriage . i have also filed dv claiming relief only o go in shared household where he resides . but its been two months now that i m running betwweeen courts n in this process my minor getting ignored . what should i do ..........m tired with court process and stressed out at the same time husband showing neglect .... suggest me what should i do further because false allegations and stands taken by my husband is bringing further negativity in me about him and i am the one who is getting affected because i never expected so much lie from him and money demandfrom him . now finally what should i do , continue with case or withdraw all. maintence is kept for order n june . i have demanded money equal to what i need . keeping in mind his responsibilities and pay . can i refuse to accept anything than what maintenace i asked , as if i have to depend and ask others to pay for our expenses in part amount , i rather take full amount from my parents and well wisher and later earn n pay them back . can i ask him to either take full responsibility or just let it be ........................
