Dear Family law experts
This is a little odd situation difficult to handel for us. My brother aged 50 remarrid after lapse of 15 years with a widow for whom it was second marriage too. She is 44 years. And works in central government now posted in Delhi.
Her parental home is in a premium south delhi area forwhich she hs left her share already, where her three borthers and one sister live free of cost in parental house.All are well educated and work in government at good posts .One is senior class one level of Jt Director status but lives separately elsewhere.
All 3 briothers and on sister sahemlessly regualrly bleed my bhabhi and take money in thousands even after her marriage bypssing my brother comopletely . She is being made emty and may be ntrouble in n old age.Bui she does not understand.
Now 4 years have gone to marriage. When marriage took place, my brother who was residing in haryana bought a house in NCR at huge cost mobilising all his savings and inherited property so that they could live comfortably and she could be closer to her brothers though , we have a good set up in haryana too. I still live in haryana only.
My bhabhi is posted now in delhi.She earns handsome salray.So it was decided that since my brother wont be left with any funds after buying house , my babhi will also put some amount in a jt account which could be used for family pension purposes later form which they will jointly draw money for househld expenses as and when needed.
But aftera 2-3 months she stopped and diverted money to one of her brother saying his daughter needs money for eduaction whereas that brother and his wife earn 2 lacs per month form central government servcie and live in own home in Delhi
Otherwise also my babhi never changed after mariage and continues to visit frequeently her borther place and lavishly spends money there only , and buys their ration househld gadgets like fridges , beds laptop etc and spends heavily her savings and income. She even applies for DDA flats with her borthers/sister not her husband. What is going on?They are bledding her and emotionally blackmailing her even after marriage as if marriage has not taken place.
She refused to put money in Jt account and as my borther has very small income being a teacher he is in trouble, he has become ill.Almost daily she taunts him, blames his character meaninglessly and quarells to justify her parental flings.Her parenst no longer are alive. AStleast I never saw such situation in my life anywhere. She has ofcourse no chldren and my brohers child is in USA now since before marrriage so both live without children or any one else.
The life has become diffcult. Counselling has failed. My borther wrote a detailed letter to her eldest brother counselling him and asking them to have some shame and not to bleed their marrid sister even after marriage instead of giving her and stop it all .but no change.rather she is doing it more now. her borthers and sisters are exploiting her emotionally and bleeding out all her money for luxury life . Every now and then one would phone and ask for 5 or 10 thousand cheque.My babhi has left her signed chq books at their place.Even her brand new car was taken by her borthrs son a student and never returmned ( 7/5 lac cost)
The situation is pretty grim
My borthera sked her to accompany for psychologict counselling but she refuses.
What to do?
is there any legal civil or criminal remedy to situation or let the marriage go bad? It cant last now more. Unless remdy is done. My brother is stuck with house and not sufficient income to meet expenses of month now. he has lost health duye to daily mental tiorture .My babhi is very rude woman too.
Kindly sufggest some deft way out of this mess if possible and feasible.
