Vibhanshu (Student) 10 January 2012

Marriage with mentaly ill person

Hi all

My mother was married to a mentally less developed person (my dad ) with out reveling out this to her family, she has two children me and my sister. Father dosnt earn a single penny but waste alot and whole family is depend on my grandmother for everything while she is very errogant and proudy, she has low hearing power because of which and inspired by other she always assume that we are planning against her, our monthly income including grandfathers pension and grandmothers pension with tenants payment is up to 25000/- while she dosnt even pay for our feeding and we are also feard about dividation of property after her because she has 2 more child my uncle and bua also, they are properly setteld and there child are earning well so please guide us that how can we protect our rights from her because she is making lots of financial probelm on which she has all control and tease my mom alot

Thanx

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Kumar Doab (FIN) 10 January 2012

It is felt that elders and neutral near and dear ones and persons of social repute can intervene and attempt to convince the senior house lady ( your grandmother) and your uncle and bua that the daughter in law ( your mother) has acted like a true civilized and cultured female and has implemented the values good parents ( her parents i.e. your maternal grandparents) pass on to children and has lived with a mentally deranged person and has given birth to his children and has not only raised them but has taken care of old lady ( mother in law) and other siblings of your father.

While other siblings have settled in life your family could not. Therefore now everyone should come forward for the welfare of family of your father and relinquish their rights in property to the lady and help you (children) to get proper education and settle in life.

If, it can be made to happen, nothing like it. Everyone shall need to apply exceptional levels of good efforts and persuasion.

Why your mother was not facilitated to get education or some vocational training and thus skills to settle in life and become financially independent.

While at one point you may become independent the lady still has to spend life with your father.

Nowadays there are advanced treatments available which can bring remarkable improvement in psychiatric patients and some of the reputed institutes are; NIMHANS, VIMHANS etc. Please take your father to a specialist. Improvement in your father shall bring solace and relief to your mother and all.

This is a heartfelt opinion.

(Guest)

If it was a fraud marriage ask you mother to leave him ( your dad) ? what will happen to her when grandparents will die . She will not get even 25,000 also.