I just got married on 30-10-2013. But, unfortunately, my husband and in-laws have harassed me mentally up to the extreme and is demanding additional dowry in the form of my salary and savings along with saying that my personal maintenance expenditure will not be borne by them or shall be of the cost they want giving fixed 5000/- monthly.
They disgraced every effort, done by my family, for marriage, including the insult of the material given as shagun for the marriage. Moreover, they have put every material into a separate empty house of theirs, which they wish to rent upon. Moreover, they have insulted my parents and relatives. Also, my husband has not yet accepted me physically too. He demands from me to look like models and make myself sensuous, only then he will be attracted towards me. He says me to look at every other girl's figure and become like her. He says that we have given them 3rd grade material including jewellery. But they have done everything A-1, A-class. He says me that he will leave me if any time in life, i resign from job.He is a liar too. His parents have now also put blame on my character. He insults me in everything in one or the other way. He don't respect anybody but wants to be given the treatment of a son-in-law and for his family, of any older century. He married not to a girl but to money and job of mine. He is completely orthodox and needs a presentable wife to his friends and people.
Also, he didn't took me anywhere for honeymoon. Not even around his residence city. He says not to share any views or problems with him, his family or my family. He puts restrictions on everything. All these have made me feel unsafe that how they will keep me, and they will not give me anything of my choice and even after being at respectable position of job in society they want me to beg in front of them for everything which is unsure that they will provide. They are living a life of standard much lower than ours but insults everything of ours. If he is not intrested in me and my wishes and health and my basic human needs oflove care and respect but he needs me to serve his family as a household worker and give all my salary to them and do everything the way they want by killing myself completely,
I cannot do this when my husband does not have any feelings as a person for his wife, at this stage of life, when every couple enjoys life, he needs the audit of my salary account, my job, me to work at home, eat after everybody else has eaten food, keep me head covered even with wet hair , that too at a chilling place like shimla, no medicines for my health,all this is unacceptable for me to sacrifice myself for those who just need my salaryand want me to be their servant.
