The humanitarian concerns are well appreciated Dear Mr. Loadha.
Now may I request to please think before jumping to conclusions and teaching morale? Please let us know what your humanitarian heart say about:
1- What should one do if the similar behavior is being observed since day one of marriage?
2- What should one assume when the husband is putting all his efforts for proper treatment of the wife, and wife when becomes healthy (after treatments costing 1 lac+) tell that WHATEVER YOU HAVE DONE WAS A DRAMA…
3- How should one consider when he is doing all his best endeavors for better medical facilities, better arrangements and best care and he is told: you cannot take my proper care so send me to my mother’s house only my brother and mother can take my care knowing full well that the mother is old lady with lot of health problem and is no way capable to take her own care and brother have no good relation with her.
4- what will you say when the husband keep on sending money, wife is utilizing that and telling I do not want to keep relation with you as you are not performing your duties?
5- What will you say when wife say you all the crap what she can think and stops talking and you get a call after 15 days that I am not well, my family is not taking proper care please come and save me. After treatment, whatever the husband (who comes all the way from 2000 kms) does was a drama to influence the in-laws that he takes proper care…
6- What would you express when you come to know that the wife does not have any emotional attachment even with the unborn baby and is always trying to count how much money husband have in your pocket?
7- What will you assume when you feel that the wife do not have any attachment with husband and his family and says that I thought before marriage that I would be the head of family after marriage and since your mother is head of family I cannot stay with her (though she is the only daughter-in-law in the family)
8- what would you think when it comes to your knowledge that the wife is more concerned about the money, keeps on asking what property would be in my name? How much FD you are booking in my name? Then what's wrong if the husband feels that he is nothing except an ATM?
9- What should the husband think if the wife who is sitting 2000 kms away sending you SMS with contentions that she want to stay alone, she want to spend whole life with mother, that also in nasty manner.
Sequence of event is quite long that’s why I did not write the entire story. So please think before commenting and telling people what is expected what not.
Further, in this forum, experts are expected to reply, if you are an expert answer professionally (keeping your sentiments aside) what is asked keeping well in mind that the moral stories have been taught to everyone and you are not the only expert of teaching morale... hope I made you clear and yes.. Sorry to be harsh..
