HI,
Writing on my friend's behalf, in her language....
I am fed up of my alcoholic and abusive husband.
Ok.
I was trying hard for the sake of my daughter.
But now, I would want to move out of his house and shift on my own (in a rented place).
Good move.
I am not expecting any money from him.
Wrong move. Money is very important, file 125 crpc application in court via lawyer and get alimony for yourself and kid.
I am a working lady and can support myself and the daughter. Things would be difficult but not impossible.
But keep optoin of 125 crpc in mind, times do change, you may need money in future.
I also dont mind returning back the ornaments they had given to me in marrigage. Should I offer to return the ornaments? What is the procedure for the same?
Once you move out, with whatever you wearing, and take with you, its yours, unless until your drunk husband has VAT bills for the same so that he can claim thatin court of law. But I suggest dont return anything. Keep gold, prices are on the increase, and you will need money. and what you leave is his, unless you have VAT bills to claim them.
What is the procedure to move out of the house. I
Just move out. No procedure as such.
f I move out just like that would I be blamed of theft of ornaments?
Might be, depends on how criminal minded the people back at home are.
Can I take the stuff I bought from my salary along with me?
YES.
Can a alcoholic father have the custody of a 10 year old female child?
YES.
Can grandparents claim for the kid's custody?
It depends on court decision and kids decisoin too, but parent inlaws can ask for visitation rights.
I do not want divorce.
Why you dont want divorce, whats in a name? Why do you want to be linked with a drunk, find someone else and re-marry. There are scores of men who are decent who want normal life who are ready to give normal peaceful life to divorcees. Try that shot, one day kid will move out, or you tend to keep kid without getting kid married or making future son in law a ghar jamai so that you will have dotter around? Its always good to have a partner.
Can I stop him from coming to my place in druken state and harass me or my daughter?
GIve police complaint for creating nuisance, but be ready to kiss marriage goodbye once you go to police station.
I dont mind him meeting the kid when not under the influence of alcohol. Please advise what can go wrong and what are the right steps to get this executed.
You cant tolerate him anymore, you have decided to move out, but he still be ur husband and he still be dad to kid, so that thing wont change even if you remarry.
Why not try changing him, quitting drinking is not that difficult, its very easy. Only need will power. Thats all. rest looks fine to me. Take daru out of the equation, thats all, going court filing cases, or staying aloof will not solve your problem, he will still continue to bother you even if you move out, or even if you go to police station.
Best is to take MCD and get rid of headache husband, and find new one.
thanks,
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