Multiple accusations by wife and inlaws

I did not mentioned clearly that my father in law is a lawyer.

Dear Mr.Raghuram, 

Though there is no basis for the same - however they can still  implicate you in false dowry case, and can implicate your entire family in the same. To Guard against the same you can start by intimating the concerned authorities as to your apprehension. Which can be followed by Anticipatory Bail if need be. Well thought out Pre-emptive action can really do wonders in such cases. Though the laws in India are heavily skewed in favour of women. 

try getting in touch with organisations like Mencell/SIF (www.mencell.weebly.com)

Dear Bharat, 

Thanks a lot for your reply. Regarding the concerned authorities you mention, can it be local DSP/SP?. My uncle proposed that we visit the office of DSP and inform the situation.

my brother raghuram...i know its the toughest decision of ur life but belive me bro ur wife didnt married u willfilluly as she now wants to get rid of u i have been thru same phase also{very painfully offcourse} .....u r a victim of fraud marriage...get rid of it as soon as possible...now u cant to domush to save ur respect,famiy and time..better try to bring down their extortion demand and get rid off her...bcs as long u will pull this matter,it will kill ur money,family,respect,carrier,peace...so be brave...ake it as a bad karma or bad experience of life and get rif of her...bcs if u will fight u will bw losing more...as u already lost...so its better to lose a lost game...take care...pay themmm...forget and start a new life my brother raghuram...

same things my wife did on honeymoon.....avoiding my physical contact and crying and later it turned out to be alligations and extortions in huge amount as compared to u...so get rid of it right now....be safe...take care..

I trust ur story and based on that : 

1. Hayderabad has a world famous Urologist and andrologist. Go and obtain certificate that u r not impotent.
2. Even if one has impotency same can be temporary or most of it are solveable but due to shyness not many take benefit of modern science and keep suffering. 
3. It is better torealise impending dangerous and with women too having same rights pl. note that they will exercise same ( rightly or wrongly). You should  hv sent a email / letter giving an account of behaviour in writing which wud hv helped you. 
4. Better late then never write to them polite letter of incidents, attach s*xual fitness certificate and requaest that both be sent for counseling and find good marriage counselor. 
5. If they still fight with u and u r ready with fitness certificate and all other evidence then file a demation case of Rs 1 cr on them that they have spoilt ur imgae before their relatives who had come with them, your family and samaj. 

Hope you have collected evidences voice recordings etc 

Where are u from, and the her father is Lawyer where ?

 dear friend, you are going to be trapped.inform dsp/sp in written.,stating copy is send to(secretary-state,cm state,secretary pmo,human right commisioner.if they register a case then take A.BAIL FOR ALL FAMILY MEMBERS. join S.I.F.F.,visit 498A.BLOGSPOT.COM.never give anything to greedy cats.regards

All the answerers so far have added one dimension or the other to the issue. All are right-meaning advices, which you have to take into account. First of all write down in detail all happening right from pre marriage negotiations, to date in as much detail as possible, the conversations in the speaker's own language and words as far as possible. This will serve a useful purpose for your advocate while facing legal proceedings. Writing is suggested because, people are prone to forget and in tense mood facts will get fudged chronologically.

Pre emptive action is necessary. Issue a notice of divorce on ground of unconsummated marriage on account of frigidity of your wife. There is no pre emptive action in criminal cases, which are to be faced. Informing police authorities of apprehension, may serve as a ground for getting anticipatory bail, if needed but trial has to be faced.

thanks bro. I am very sorry on what happend you, I can understand the pain. Thanks for sharing your experience and for your suggestion.

No Mr. Swapnil. I did not do that. I am late on this.

Dear friend. Can I approach DSP of any city or the city where the girl belongs to.? Please suggest.

Mr Alok Tholia has advised rightly, but the moment you try to do as suggested by Mr Tholia, in order to protect herself and her family she will file 498a etc etc..all these things will be required to be done at a later stage..first you have to protect yourself..

First and formost..

(1) write an official letter to the local police station that my wife, immeidately after marriage is threatening to file criminal cases against me and my family members..and in return asking for money..

(2) Get the letter stamped by them..so that you have a proof that they have received the letter..getting the letter stamped in very important..

(3) Submit the copy of the letter to all the higher police authorities DSP/SP/ACP/CP all as far as possible..

(4) Also submit the same copy of the letter to the police station local to your wife's home..

(5) In the letter mention CC ie..copies to so and so..

(6) you may also file a complaint of extortion u.s 384 IPC against them..the offence in Cognizable and non-bailable..they will have to go to jail for few days....it is truth no harm in it..

This action will keep you in power..unlike in other cases..where the other side is in power after filing criminal cases against the husband...

Any fear from your side..or delay may put you in serious trouble...act at once..

Vikram