Respectable people in this forum,
I beleive in my country and its law because its basic concept of our jurisprudence is.
*********** 100 culprits may let go free but no innocent should be punished. ***************
But in reality, culprits (misusers of law) became free to do crimes and innocents became scapegoats.
I am posting this, the story of mine, because I want to fight against the misuse of law.
I want this to be an eye opener to all those who wants to threaten their husbands in the name of the LAW.
My wife left me and is living seperately. (6 months). I tried to convince her and bring her home but all my efforts became futile. All my conversations are done on mail. She was reluctant & refused to come back.
Her father asked for divorce on August 15th when we tried to convince them through a third person.
She mailed me that she knows it and she asked her father to do that. ( I have the mails sent by her).
From then there was no reply from them, I am living alone, hopeless.
Instead of telling you my entire story I will tell you what I have observed / briefed from them.
1.) Her parents and she asked for divorce and they are adamant.
They wanted / (waiting for) me to take the first step for divorce and to take advantage from that.
2.) Her parents asked for divorce ( this is the 6th time and every time it's serious).
They wanted me to beg her and kiss her feet and then theirs and live like a slave for them.
3) She left me and is living seperately and she never came to meet me, and her parents also never asked for our being together. They never even tried / asked us to be together instead they told to everyone in my hometown that they are willing to give us divorce as I am not a good person.
They want our parents to go and ask about her bringing back, because we may loose our respect in our town. If I am not a good person why are they waiting for this much of time (6 months), if so why no one among her parents / relatives came and ask me & why WE are trying through a mediator to talk to them.
4.) Filing Dowry, DV Acts cases against me.
If anything I have DONE then why they were staying calm. They asked for divorce under ground less reasons. Law is with them, she is living seperately and she can. Why can't they file it within 6 months.
5.) She hates my family, parents and she mailed me that I should stay away from them.
I have a few questions, as I do not know law I am asking you, any person can tell me the answer but LAW is something different. I want them to realize their mistakes. Never to make anybody hurt without any proper reasons. I am living alone like a person waiting for his death. My parents and entire relatives are not happy because they never expected this from them. Agony, pain, loneliness, injsutice, everything needs to be solved. Here I am requesting you for solution that should deactivate the misusers of LAW.
Honorable people in this forum, I am asking you few questions please answer me with your knowledge, experience, judgement.
1.) Why should I stay quiet even though they asked for divorce?
2.) Why should not my parents go and file a case against their irrational behaviour (asking for divorce under ground less reasons)?.
3.) What is the purpose of having a wife who doesn't love her husband at all and at any costs. Having in-laws who loves to see us live seperately without giving divorce / staying together.
4.) She wants me to stay away from my parents. What life may I spend in living with her. and I do not want her to see her parents again. Even she will be allowed if she accepts my conditions
1.) She should come and live with me if she loves me and never hurts me.
2.) I do not want her parents to come and see me.
3.) She can take a MCD if she is not happy with me instead of killing me with my loneliness.
She is adamant, dominant, disrespectful, .............. and fianlly I am vexed.
Please help me.
Thanks,
Morgan.
