My wife said she would send me notice

Be firm let her do what she has to do . This is just indian tamasha .Just worrying and thinking over the matter does not help . As and when it comes than you can see about it .

Boss, Relax plz........dont worry almost every 3rd door person is facing the same problem......its metro wife fashion of toturing the husband for the sake of money........

visit  the following sites and be ready  to face your wife at court (Soon she will be your ex wife) 

https://terminatorak.wordpress.com/strategy/

https://www.saveindianfamily.org/

All the best and welcome  to the club 

Thank you Saayujyaa S sir, for your reply.

I am very satisfied with your reply as such I had an umbrella in a heavy rain. Never recieved such an answer "Sure she will be your ex wife." To you I am telling you the story. They (she and her parents) repeatedly asking us divorce, when I beg her she is in heaven. When I don't respond to her she is mailing me that she loves me. This game played since 6 months and I asked her "If you want divorce you would have filed already, you are blackmailing me" I have every conversation with her on mail. She asked me for divorce twice and she told me to wait for her to send me the notice. 

Is this enough for me to get divorce from her, because I am not at all interested in her.  I am sure, she would file cases against me (DV, Dowry....) to deteriorate me.  So can you guide me in facing these cases. I never used the word "give me divorce or I don't want you" does this really help me.  Even if she appoints an advocate he will for sure demands alimony / maintenance that would cost me a lot How to face that. 

I always asked her to come back stay with me we want to live together, but she always denied I dont believe you, my parents wont believe you, I dont want your parents to come to our house, .. like this. 

Please help  me boss,  You know the law and I am a blind folded person crossing the heavy traffic road.

Hey JP , if your inlaws say that you have broken their heart , then just tell them they are lucky that its only heart not their bones . Make them aware that if they continue to do this emotional atyachaar then they can keep their daughter to save her bones !! 

Don't beg her to come back , enjoy your life and leave the complications for complicated people :)

Hi Gunjan, Saayujyaa S, and all other people who can help me...

They are blackmailing me about giving me divorce, threatening me that they would send me papers and this is happening from the first day of our marriage, talked about 8 times about giving us divorce. 

Sir, help me, the answers you posted has raised hope in me can I file or send a notice for her, how can I face her lawyers / arguments there after. Just show me the right path and give me some suggestions on how to follow, and I have all the proofs of their blackmailing so please do this sir. 

JPMorgan,

Why are you losing mental peace and night's sleep just over notice that too you havent received.

We are in deep sh*t of 498A and DV ..still enjoying life and having sound sleep...Filing cases are very easy and getting to prove all allegation right is very tough..

My suggestion here is cut down all communication for another 6 months. Do not pick up calls , do not reply to emails , sms etc. Do not respond to any mediators,girls side relatives about your thinking...and see the show. Meanwhile focus on job / business and shine @work , do body buidling , pursue hobby which you could not have pursued due to lack of time :-)