12 years of marriage. 2 kids. Problems started from the 1st year of marriage. About 8 months have been passed of separation. There is no response from other side. Now I am much frustrated and depressed and want final solution after doing all best efforts from my side to live together. She is extremely egoistic, selfish and obsessive for her gov job and doesn't care me. My parents are very simple and don't want to interfere in my family life. Pls suggest me, how can I send a notice of legal separation to come out from double sided roads. Pls also suggest me a Good lawyer. I am staying in Sahibabad (Ghaziabad-UP) from last 12 years. She is also staying in the same city at separate house.