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Need a legal advice on physical intimacy issue

Hi All,

 Seek for an advice. My friend recently got married. It was an arrange marriage. Now he was depressed and go nowhere due to facing the physical intimacy issue with spouse. Can get any legal advise/help for this?



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T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     12 November 2013

What exactly do you want to clarify?, you are not clear about what you want to say, be specific in your query.


(Guest)

Hello Mr.kalaiselvan sir,

  My friend got recently married around July month. It was an arranged marriage. He never knew about the girl before marriage by any means. Through his parents, he got the girl's photo and approached their family to see her directly to continue if he is ok with her. He went with his relatives to saw her and decided to marry her. They(both boy and girl) were hesitated and didn't talked to each other at first sight. After engagement, they got married by July month. From the day 2 after marriage, he was totally depressed and remain very calm to everyone. Usually, he is a very funniest and jovial guy who made the crowd around him always with smile & laugh.

 After talking to him a lot, he finally told that he was not happy with her psychique. Her body is so rigid, tough and no feminine softness. Due to that, he was not able to make love/romance out of it. He was telling that he is not getting the feeling of living with women. Seems, She learnt karate in her college days. Might be the reason, her body would be like that. Also in character wise, she was finding faults from others(him or family members) and fighting with him all nights. Sometimes, threatened him she would die if he says about his fightings to her family. Due to this, he was so upset, stressed himself how to handle this situation.

 

 

Laxmi Kant Joshi (Advocate )     12 November 2013

These allare small issues , don't try to make them uncurable , when they live together they will accept each other , let Them to spend some more time , your friend will realise everything is o.k , don't find out fault on her keep patience , give her time to settle her with your friends and with his family members . tell your friend not to open the intimacy of their married life to anybody if not very necessary , try to solve every problem amicably , nice and wisely.

fighting back (exec)     12 November 2013

@happy, lame excuse for getting divorce, divorce wont happen easily on the reasons given abpve,. however, if there is absence of s*xual activity, then the other partner can file for divorce on grounds of impotency or on grounds of denial of s*x. however your partner cannot take advantage of his own wrong by not performing in bed, if the girl has medical issues, then better consult a doctor and get detailed report if the woman has any flaws, and on that basis file for divorce.

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     12 November 2013

Please confirm that whether their marriage was consummated or not, if not whether the girl did not cooperate physically due to some problem or whether the boy could not indulge fully in the s*xual activities with her due to her unwillingness/non-cooperation or due to his own weakness etc.  If such a thing exists, it may be a deficiency on either side and technically termed as impotency  (whether curable or incurable).  Thus take your friend to you doctor or a psychologist, get him examined/counselled and then the turn of the girl,see where is the defect, if there is no defect on both sides, you can assume your friend to play some foul play or if any defect detected on any side, see if it is curable or else doors for legal solution are always open.


(Guest)

Thanks Mr.Kalaiselvan, Fightingback and laxmi kant for valuable suggestions. As advised, will take him to hospital first and proceed further.


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