I and Mr.X ( I don't want to publish his name here as he is holding a respectable rank in Indian Armed Forces) have been in love for about two years. He promised me that he will certainly marry me. But his parents were totally against our relationship. He said even if his parents force him to marry some other girl, he will marry me also and take me as his second wife. I believed him because at that time I did not know that second marriage is legally void in India.
His parents found another girl for him and he got married to that girl in November 2009. Since his engagement to that girl, I never tried to contact him although he kept calling me at times. I tried to keep distance from him as far as possible because I love him sincerely and didn't want his life to be spoiled even though he had promised me that he will certainly marry me. I was always happy for him.
We were totally not in contact for about past four months. But last week, he unexpectedly called me and talked to me for some time. He said he just want to know about my whereabouts and asked me to keep in touch. I could hear noises of vehicles in the background and thought he might be driving. So I said I'll call him back after some time and disconnected the call. Somehow, I was not able to call him back on that day and called him after two days or so. This time his wife picked up and said he was not there at that time. I asked her when he will be back but she refused to tell and spoke unpolitely as if I was trying to stay in touch with a married man. I told her he only wants me to talk to him but she did not accept.
At this, even I got provoked as she was blaming me without any reason. I asked her to convey him my message that I still love him and want to be his second wife as he promised. But immediately after that, I told her I didn't mean to hurt her and apologised her for whatever i said. I tried to make her understand that I just wanted to talk to him and nothing more than that. But she was in no mood to hear me. After that she started messaging me using all sorts of abusive words (b*tch, prostitute etc.) . She is claiming that he never loved me and only I was trying to force myself on him. She is still continuing those messages.
Now I have the following doubts:
1. Is there any possibility to take any legal action against her who is using such abusive language?
2. If we take her word as true(ie he never loved me), is there any possibilty to proceed legally against him who played with my feelings and emotions and cheated me by saying that he will certainly marry me?
3. If the above are possible what are the steps I have to take to go ahead with a legal proceeding?
