Hi, My name is Sunita and I got married on Dec 1st 2001 and went to Chennai to stay with my husband. Then I got pregnant and left for Jalandhar in July 2002 gave birth to baby boy on Oct 16th 2002. Then I went back in Jan 2003 but left my kid with my parents in Jalandhar. I stayed with my husband for 10 months or so then he left for Canada and then to USA. I came back to my parents and started living with them. He was such a monster all the time he was with me....torturing and beating me like animal. Mental torture was the biggest pain then physical torture. Since 2003 forward I was living with my parents, he did not send any money from USA to his family. He used to abuse me in all such manner over the phone and emails.
I started working in New Delhi from June 2007 till the current day. I went to USA once in Aug 2007 for 10 days only. I came to know that my husband started living with another woman there who has kid as well. They both started torturing me there for giving him mutual divorce. Hence I came back to my parents home to Jalandhar and continued working in New Delhi. Now its been so long and I really do not want to live with him anymore. My kid is now 11 years old and do not want to go back to his father too. I am the one who is earning and looking after my parents and my son. I want to get rid of this unbearable burden as I do not speak to him and I am in no contact with him, but my parents do speak to him as my kid lives with them and he occasionally speak to my son.
I have filled a Divorce case in New Delhi High Court at Kashmere Gate in 2010, but its of no use. I have heard that if husband and wife stays seperately and lives on their own then it is considered as Divorce. Is this possible??? I want divorce from this person. He is of no use never took care of his wife and child. I just need help and advice as I am in big trouble. He still stays in USA and randomly comes to India and often visit to my parents house to see my kid. He do not know my address where I live or where I work. Please help me I am in emotional and financial trauma.
Thanks
Sunita